Guy behaving weirdo suddenly.... pls comment

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Scorpio_711
@Scorpio_711
9 Years

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Hi I’m 32 yr woman n I was dating this guy (33) who is divorced through online dating site. We gelled up really well but it ws a distant relationship and felt things were really going at fast pace. I insisted on meeting first den finalising things for mrg as things may go sour. He insisted he ws sure but being practical I hd doubts n wanted to meet n spend time. That was last year January. He couldn’t make it in June and I cudnt get visa so we wre like fighting and due to work commitments I started thinking that it’s impractical to be that into someone whom u have not met. I demanded break up but he insisted on being frendz and not jus breakup. So we continued being friends and see if we cud work it out. I was into him too so our same video calls n chats continued.Finally he gave me surprise this feb and we cud spend 2 days only as he got off only for week and he hd to Meet his parents here too. He jus said I ws too adorable than our video calls. He kissed me and tried to come a bit close. All this while he ws teasing me a lot. Later he dropped m home and he hd flight the next very day. After that it’s been more than 2 weeks he is ignoring me. Doesn’t msg or call. When I insisted on video call he ws not looking into my eyes and here and there. And again he doesn’t answer my calls . Jus says will call later which he never does. To my 10 msgs he would reply me after a day and that too strangely. I’m not understanding what is it? I asked him it’s fine if he didn’t want to pursue jus be clear but he is not replying. It’s really annoying.. pls help
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Meowpie
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7 Years

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He likely wanted more than a kiss when he came over to visit you.

Might be a player and since you took more time and effort, he may have gotten bored with the chase.

From the way he handled the departure, it seems he is shutting you out and emotionally detached already (two weeks of ignore from guy usually means done). Try to move on, find a date or two in your local area and slowly forget him with new interests.