@ChocolateHazelnut
8 YearsSagittarius
Do you prefer being single or in a relationship?
Understanding Preferences for Being Single or in a Relationship
People's preferences for being single or in a relationship vary based on personal values, experiences, and current life circumstances. Some prioritize independence, while others seek companionship. Recognizing your own needs can help you make choices that align with your happiness and well-being.
Single till I can sort myself out.
A little of both. relationships are a lot of work but being single gets lonely.
Single
The last few years have been the most enjoyable for me after spending lots of years in rships because I was too needy
Sweet
Freedom
❤️
🌟
I prefer sitting, and contemplating being in a relationship, to actually being in one.
I am going with SuninLibra - Single unless he is the right one. No point in settling or wasting anyone's time
I prefer to be content/ happy
Like in between....
I really like the person... so, I'll be in a relationship and I do enjoy their company and whatnot. It's fun
But being single also have good qualities when you could just spend money on yourself.
Most of the stuff that I could do single, I could do in a relationship.
In a relationship I could do stuff when I'm single... sooo I'm neutral 🤔
I prefer to be in a relationship I can relate with, or simply alone. Both are the same to me.
If the relationship is really good I prefer a relationship, but single is infinitely better for me than being in a bad or mediocre relationship.
Besides being single is awesome. When I go shopping I don't have a list or ideas, I just pick a bunch of random shit I like. Like today I ended up with oysters, cheese, catfish sinkers for fishing, blueberries, and fiji water. Rather then cooking a meal I'll just munch on all this for the next few days lol!
Posted by SuninLibra
Single til I find the right person, its nice to have someone
Ahh the right person. I have the same issue.
Relationship but living apart. Cause when I find his stuff that he's left laying out it makes me smile cause I miss him. If we lived together it would prolly drive me mad.
Being in a good relationship.
That's my promise to myself since I was a little kid and now I'm keeping my promise.
Posted by Smidge
Single
Single till I find one that makes me wanna be with him without a second thought....
Posted by Soul
Besides being single is awesome. When I go shopping I don't have a list or ideas, I just pick a bunch of random shit I like. Like today I ended up with oysters, cheese, catfish sinkers for fishing, blueberries, and fiji water. Rather then cooking a meal I'll just munch on all this for the next few days lol!
That shiet is gonna last you a few days? Stop playing. haha
Posted by Smidge
SinglePsh. 😒
What's your answer?
In a relationship.
I'm no jaded.
🤔 Bs
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Kbye
Posted by Soul
Besides being single is awesome. When I go shopping I don't have a list or ideas, I just pick a bunch of random shit I like. Like today I ended up with oysters, cheese, catfish sinkers for fishing, blueberries, and fiji water. Rather then cooking a meal I'll just munch on all this for the next few days lol!
That shiet is gonna last you a few days? Stop playing. haha
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I have eggs, bread and tons of canned vegetables at home, but I tend to never eat in large portions. I more or less eat small amounts throughout the day. Probably not the most healthy way to diet, but my whole life I've had a tough time eating an entire plate of food consisting of different things. Like ill eat some eggs and toast for breakfast, a sandwich or can of vegetables at lunch, then little amounts of fruit and random stuff around dinner. I was like that even as a child, and would always get yelled at because i couldn't finish my plate of food, then would be hungry 1 hour later lol.
Single is the cowards way out
I been single long enough I would love to be in a loving commited relationship. Living with cap showed me married life and I can absolutely say I'm so ready for it.
Aries sun
Posted by enfant_terrible
Single is the cowards way outTHIS.
People are afraid of getting into lovey-dovey shit. Smh. Just take the leap.
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Being single doesn't require anything of you but morbid self-absorbtion. Doesn't come as a surprise that that just happens to suit the aspie generation just fine.
Single, for sure!
In a healthy relationship...I really dislike being single. Makes me feel kinda lame, actually.
Unless I find the right man I’m so happy being single over some relationship
Posted by enfant_terrible
Single is the cowards way outTHIS.
People are afraid of getting into lovey-dovey shit. Smh. Just take the leap.
Posted by enfant_terrible
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lol you both cancer venus? lol
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.
Def relationship...that is loving and happy with respect for each other. Good with being single tho too. Need space to recharge.
I would prefer to be in a single relationship. 🤗 And yeah yeah i know - monogamy is boring this days 🙄 - but what i can i say... i'm old school like that (or boring - if you will 😝).
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.
So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
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i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
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What's a lovable bastard....I didn't know there was such a thing ?
The word to me conjures up a shitty person who has no respect
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
What's a lovable bastard....I didn't know there was such a thing ?
The word to me conjures up a shitty person who has no respect
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me and my man are funny with eachother.... we call eachother love names, and sometimes i call him a bastard. but my tone is sweet and laughing
our relationship is fun even when we're just homebodies; we enjoy eachother's company.
that's the best kind of relationship to me, to enjoy eachother's time together.
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
What's a lovable bastard....I didn't know there was such a thing ?
The word to me conjures up a shitty person who has no respect
me and my man are funny with eachother.... we call eachother love names, and sometimes i call him a bastard. but my tone is sweet and laughing
our relationship is fun even when we're just homebodies; we enjoy eachother's company.
that's the best kind of relationship to me, to enjoy eachother's time together.
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Don't let him sting you too often Lisa...we can do that at times, Scorpios that is
We are much better when people don't allow us to get away with too much .... just tell him to f uck off now and then
Lol
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
What's a lovable bastard....I didn't know there was such a thing ?
The word to me conjures up a shitty person who has no respect
me and my man are funny with eachother.... we call eachother love names, and sometimes i call him a bastard. but my tone is sweet and laughing
our relationship is fun even when we're just homebodies; we enjoy eachother's company.
that's the best kind of relationship to me, to enjoy eachother's time together.
Don't let him sting you too often Lisa...we can do that at times, Scorpios that is
We are much better when people don't allow us to get away with too much .... just tell him to f uck off now and then
Lol
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After talking to my friend yesterday who was in bits after a guy she was dating turned out to be a flake.........glad to be 👍SINGLE👍
After noticing how many people who are married start to chase other people
And after reading lots of posts on here.....hope it lasts forever, some of you guys are something else with your rship problems
Lol
I am happiest when I am in a relationship
Posted by lisabethur8
i enjoy being in a relationship but i'm happier if the relationship is healthy and loving. a big difference.So you wouldn't be with a guy that is a bastard then Lisa....like you did years ago ?
i call my husband a bastard but he's a lovable bastard, and a very good man....
there's a difference.
a real bastard who is evil and abusive
and the sweet loving ones who are bastards. lol
and not this type either...
What's a lovable bastard....I didn't know there was such a thing ?
The word to me conjures up a shitty person who has no respect
me and my man are funny with eachother.... we call eachother love names, and sometimes i call him a bastard. but my tone is sweet and laughing
our relationship is fun even when we're just homebodies; we enjoy eachother's company.
that's the best kind of relationship to me, to enjoy eachother's time together.
Don't let him sting you too often Lisa...we can do that at times, Scorpios that is
We are much better when people don't allow us to get away with too much .... just tell him to f uck off now and then
Lol
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(((Lisa)))
Posted by enfant_terrible
Single is the cowards way outTHIS.
People are afraid of getting into lovey-dovey shit. Smh. Just take the leap.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Single is the cowards way outlol you both cancer venus? lol
Virgo Venus.
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do you have cancer somewhere? i remember you mentioned something in a post awhile back with having cancer placements and boobs because ...cancer/ boobs connection. lol i know that's weird but it's how my mind works. lol
I am lonely and somewhat needy so I'd really like a relationship...
I agree with the notion that being alone is boring. I am extremely lonely and don't have many friends and it is absolutely awful.
Posted by oxSunQueenxo
Both.Why both tho?
I like the freedom that comes with being alone, but I also love being loved by a boyfriend.
Being alone can be great but gets boring quick without someone being there to enjoy it with. Sometimes love gets the best of us. Words change such as I becomes we etc.
GETS BOring too with another
I REMeber seeing sunset with ex n not we’re distant apart zero connection
I was basically watching it on my own. Without the he hassle
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I have been there too.....some of my exes have drained me of my sparkle....hard work, but I got it back now 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Posted by ChocolateHazelnut
Tell me I wanna chat :p :p
Depends on the point I am in my life. I am one of those people that need a lot of space (Aqua Sun,Sag Moon) but I also crave companionship (Taurus Rising, Cap Venus ) so I am a bit all over the place. In my opinion slightly crazy.
Posted by neves
I would prefer to be in a single relationship. 🤗 And yeah yeah i know - monogamy is boring this days 🙄 - but what i can i say... i'm old school like that (or boring - if you will 😝).I hear you so well! I am with you, Neves!
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Oh wait i just remembered... i'm a Gemini. And technically, us Geminis are in already in a relationship since birth. 🙄 So, it's sorta monogamous, he he... 😅 If we're to get involve with another - that's a bit like a "menage a trois...'' 😳
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