Help from Geminis Please!!!

I'm a Gem female, and there are differences between male and female Gems, but I'll give you my insight...

I ADORE people who are different from me. Gems love to debate and learn new things and people who are opposite us intrigue the hell out of us. Don't let the differences scare you, unless they are differences in things that could hinder your relationship like beliefs on marriage or monogamy for that matter.

Kudos to you for not bending to a Gemini's 'casual relationship' mumbo jumbo. As you probably know, Gems are one of the most flexible signs. Indecisive at times, but that leads to flexibility. Where you are firm, he is bendable. Not saying you'll be able to run over him, but chances are he'll do more to fit to you than you would to fit to him. Change is in our nature, and we don't go about it crying. We enjoy it.

I'd say just be yourself. Continue to stimulate his intellect. Keep the debates coming. Don't be quick to agree with him on every topic, that's no fun! The biggest thing is to keep him interested. We LOVE spontaneity. Do something out of the norm once in a while and it'll have him trying to figure out why you did it. Mental stimulation. (Make sure its good.) In my experience with traditional people (Cap) I've really adored their view on life. Gems aren't as outlandish as people assume. We're really everything in one, it just depends on what side you pull out of him.

So spontaneity, mental stimulation, laughs, and whatever else you were doing that got him to take himself off the market! You'll be fine.

Hello!

I am a gemini female and even though we could be somewhat different from gemini males, here are a couple of tips:

1. A gemini is never off the market. It is just a temporary stage. They seek perfection in every way and that could be tiring. They also seek stimulation in every front, because they alredy know that they can provide it. He might be yours but you have to prove yourself in so many ways that it is not even funny. He is going to test you so much, even when you don't know he does. Be a little difficult in the beginning. They like the arts a lot and they are curious to learn evrything.
2. They can be sweet one day and very cold the next. And if you can't handle it, you will be soon fighting an emotional roller coster, because it is going to feel that there is no stability whatsever. But he will think in terms of personal space and being himself.
3. You will find it very difficult to respect their sense of freedom. He might vanish for days and then come back to you like nothing happened. Encourage him to go out with his friends and do his own things. He needs that.
4. He is prone to lying and cheating and they are overtly flirtatious. He will cheat on you if there is something out there that is more interesting. They don't go out looking, but their sex appeal attracts people like bees on honey and they are always surrounded by many people. They are the eternal kids and they can be very goofy and have a great, dry sense of humor and you will definately have the time of your life.
5. Great sex, very romantic, very courteous and gentleman like. You won't be able to resist. They like kind and gentle people but they are aggravated by the stupid and ignorant ones. He will treat you like a princesss if you are nice, kind and gentle to him. Even when he is cold don't take it personal, he doesn't mean it. He is just angry with himself and you have to be patient.
6. Don't start to talk about commitments and BS like that. He is going to bake up with you. For him "freedom" is his best buddy. That doesn't mean that he doesn't want to be committed ever, but rather that he doesn't want to feel trapped in a relationship. Everything has to have a natural course and be free flowing. Don't interrogate him "where were you? what did you do?who were you with?.If you show him that you trust him he won't betray your trust.

7. Only one person can hold their heart and this is how they feel. And this is their only committment. But it could take years for that to happen. He has to feel secure to open up and then you might hear things that you might have never imagined that you could hear from that man.
8. They also care a lot about their careers, so help him be the best at what he does and give him your opinion when he asks or politely and indirecly say your opinion. He will appreciate that. He need to feel financial prepared to move to anything else with you.He wants to feel very comfortable with his life and he won't settle for mediocre things anywhere.
9. He is very kind and likes to help people in general. People will try to take advantage of him. But he always knows. Don't think he just lets its happen.He has amazing faith in people and believes that everyone is good deep inside. If he gets hurt, then he needs time to heal on his own. He likes to isolate and hear no one and nothing. They like to be alone. They want space. Again, don't take it personal, it is not about you.
10. He will admit his mistakes if you do as well and don't be stubborn about it. He doesn't hold a grudge ever.
11. He likes changes so don't wear your hear the same or wear the same cloths. He likes change in you, otherwise he will try to find it somewhere else. Surprise him. He will adore you. Do things unexpected and he will be in to you. Be honest with him and he will honor you for ever. But don't scold him or immasculate him, he will despise you. Hope it helps!Good Luck!

Thx for the tips, they were awesome!

My pleasure!If something more specific happens in the near future between the two of you, let me know and maybe I can give a tip or two. Good luck!V.