I am new to this site but... Honestly really at my wits end for answers about this Leo male. I guess not too much at my wits end because I am not going to the actual person. But i digress.... I have a question about what this Leo male is possibly doing?!? He is sun leo july 25th and japanese and black and 30 yrs (im hoping a Leo around his age would offer perspective that i'll have peace of mind) i was friends with him in highschool and he was 2 years younger than me and used to try to persue me but i was older honestly and really into well, myself. Fast forward i had a collge period where we tried to hang but i was really oblivious to him still maybe having feelings for me (gemini problems). Then years later i found him on instagram and he started liking all my pictures and asked for my snapchat and he started messaging me from that social platform. At this time i was in a relationship that was on social media so he knew and ... Behind closed doors beginning to seem like a disaster... But i was keeping up a strong front honestly.. Well because pride ? lol. I was starting to notice he was flirting and i was not flirting but not ignoring him (like i do anyone flirting with me while in a relationship). I didnt watch his stories at first but i started to and saw that... Well frankly he grew up nice lol and i went into this spiral of being attracted and then just honestly completely smitten. I separated from who i was with for a period because we werent foing well and i was "safety" flirting with this Leo because i honestly didnt know what i was doing. He would message me and be really bold but respectful but never say "i like you" "im trying to see you" it was always like "whats up with you", "oh i see your here or there..." "i see you cooked make me something" beat around the bush stuff that if i acted too boldly might make me look stupid... And then like send me him literally dancing to a song that seems like our situation of being into each other or a video of him lip synching to a song which was super super cute but... How do i respond to that? ... Fast forward he was also persuing a girl from out of the country who (is not cuter than me fyi lol she looks like the rapper TI wife Tiny mean but hey my names not on this whats the chances anyone i know will see it ?) she is super into him and after visiting him 3 times wants to move to where he lives! Im into him too but i have... A lot to consider to say the least and not get into that too much. When i saw that she moved out here and he wouldnt put her face on his snap story but the back of her head or subtle stuff where you know on the social site we talk on i got super butt hurt and unfollowed him for like 4 months and then i was curious and refollowed him and she was still there and i didnt unfollow because i decided i didnt want to look even more weird and hung up and i decided id have to just get over it by any means necessary and do me. he went back to watching everything i posted and i sent him a happy bday text and he thanked me with lots of emojis but that was it. ITs been 2 months. I thought we were both fine just following each other on snapchat and he watched evvery one of my snaps yesterday then unfollowed me yeserday.. Rando. (deep exhale) of course theres more but whats the general consensus—? Hopefully something that gives me peace of mind. I am not going to front i really like him still and idk what it is... its magnetic and like hes unexplainably irresistable... And now i feel like... Idk.. I dont like it though... Whats the perspective on his deal?(and i get it would be assuming)
