Here we go..Here we go again?

I suppose I really can not compare my first experience (Which was terrible) with a Taurus to this man.

Without looking, and so coincidentally I've run across another Taurus man. (Just found this out.)

Oh goody golly...

We've been talking for a week just about. Finding out his sign has made me bitter. What recently happened to me in the pass with said former Taurus male has made me pretty much put up a wall so thick that the possibility of allowing anyone in for a long, long, LONG, while is slim.

We are just chatting friendly right now. That's all. No promises. No obligations.

We recently talked on the phone until wee hours of the morning, just chatting still. He was actually very talkative.

Now that I know what sign he is I keep reflecting back to all that he's said, and what I said. I sang a snippet of song for him. He says "You can sing. That's strange."

I of course ask why.

He proceeds to tell me about how every single one of his uncles has always ended up marrying a women whom can sing. I didn't really react to much to it. I just said "Oh?"

Now I'm looking back at it like... "Why did he feel safe enough to tell me that? Or is this just a "disarming." type deal.

We were suppose to see each other Wednesday.

Monday he texts me "I can't wait for Wednesday to come." No time was really set.

Wednesday comes. I end up doing my own thing, not worried about it. Obviously he wasn't serious. He never mentions anything of it.

Pops up in my messages Wednesday at 10:11pm saying,"Whats up with you?".

I say,"Just enjoying myself. How are you?"
He says "Whatever that means. I'm cool."

I'm so in tune with what I got going that I forget to respond honestly.

Is he already "testing" me

I'm venting. I guess I'm just so tired of everything.

Posted by Hotbeefy
On topic: You actually made me curious what's your chart actually is. (I might missed it)

Off topic: I think I'm going to understand the reason for Taurus and Scorpio to be together.

I actually don't know my chart myself, how do I figure that out?

Posted by Impulsv
Was the other one bad from the get go, the first week?!

I'm looking forward to the good Taurus lol

The former Taurus that was terrible, was sweet as a peach in the first week, and that sweet peach seemed to grow more, and more bitter for a reason I'm not sure of. He actually changed all his social site names to "Trash." Since he thinks he's trash. I'm going to assume that is what he is.

Good Taurus? Hm, I'm not sure what he is truly.

The NOW Taurus I am talking to now seems more mature, and he's not "sweet" just polite. He's just being himself. He's a little salty that I didn't mention or seem upset about our NOT meeting Wednesday. Gave me a chuckle. 🙂 Hm

Google did the trick.

Explain?

Sun Cancer 9.22
Moon Aquarius 29.33
Mercury Cancer 25.25
Venus Leo 23.19
Mars Leo 21.34
Jupiter Leo 14.31
Saturn Aquarius 5.17 R
Uranus Capricorn 11.55 R
Neptune Capricorn 15.33 R
Pluto Scorpio 17.47 R
Lilith Capricorn 7.21
Asc node Capricorn 18.59

Posted by BeaCancer91

We've been talking for a week just about. Finding out his sign has made me bitter. What recently happened to me in the pass with said former Taurus male has made me pretty much put up a wall so thick that the possibility of allowing anyone in for a long, long, LONG, while is slim.

We are just chatting friendly right now. That's all. No promises. No obligations.

We recently talked on the phone until wee hours of the morning, just chatting still. He was actually very talkative.

Now that I know what sign he is I keep reflecting back to all that he's said, and what I said. I sang a snippet of song for him. He says "You can sing. That's strange."

I of course ask why.

He proceeds to tell me about how every single one of his uncles has always ended up marrying a women whom can sing. I didn't really react to much to it. I just said "Oh?"

Now I'm looking back at it like... "Why did he feel safe enough to tell me that? Or is this just a "disarming." type deal.

We were suppose to see each other Wednesday.

Monday he texts me "I can't wait for Wednesday to come." No time was really set.

Wednesday comes. I end up doing my own thing, not worried about it. Obviously he wasn't serious. He never mentions anything of it.

Pops up in my messages Wednesday at 10:11pm saying,"Whats up with you?".

I say,"Just enjoying myself. How are you?"
He says "Whatever that means. I'm cool."

I'm so in tune with what I got going that I forget to respond honestly.

Is he already "testing" me

I'm venting. I guess I'm just so tired of everything.

Wow...poor guy doesn't have a chance in hell with you eh? Take that bitterness you have going on and try to make some positives out of it. Anyone who compares a previous relationship by sun sign to someone they don't even know yet has serious issues. Especially when astrology does NOT definitively define one. Upbringing and life experience does. This:

"Monday he texts me "I can't wait for Wednesday to come." No time was really set.

Wednesday comes. I end up doing my own thing, not worried about it. Obviously he wasn't serious."

You bitterly assumed, and didn't ask him a time or show any interest.
Speaks volumes of your character. He saw it too when he says: "Whatever that means."
smh... Why bother to date with a shitty attitude like that?

Posted by BeaCancer91

The NOW Taurus I am talking to now seems more mature, and he's not "sweet" just polite. He's just being himself. He's a little salty that I didn't mention or seem upset about our NOT meeting Wednesday. Gave me a chuckle. 🙂 Hm

He mirrored back your behavior. How'd it feel?

Anyone who is still bitter, hurt or angry over a relationship that ended SHOULD NOT be looking for or be in ANY relationship PERIOD!!! It's not fair to the next person, not to mention the person hurting is NOT ready mentally or emotionally to carry a new relationship until the previous relationship has been grieved and FORGOTTEN. Don't expect the next person to be your bandaid. It doesn't work, and it will fail miserably.

Posted by LetltB

Posted by BeaCancer91

We've been talking for a week just about. Finding out his sign has made me bitter. What recently happened to me in the pass with said former Taurus male has made me pretty much put up a wall so thick that the possibility of allowing anyone in for a long, long, LONG, while is slim.

We are just chatting friendly right now. That's all. No promises. No obligations.

We recently talked on the phone until wee hours of the morning, just chatting still. He was actually very talkative.

Now that I know what sign he is I keep reflecting back to all that he's said, and what I said. I sang a snippet of song for him. He says "You can sing. That's strange."

I of course ask why.

He proceeds to tell me about how every single one of his uncles has always ended up marrying a women whom can sing. I didn't really react to much to it. I just said "Oh?"

Now I'm looking back at it like... "Why did he feel safe enough to tell me that? Or is this just a "disarming." type deal.

We were suppose to see each other Wednesday.

Monday he texts me "I can't wait for Wednesday to come." No time was really set.

Wednesday comes. I end up doing my own thing, not worried about it. Obviously he wasn't serious. He never mentions anything of it.

Pops up in my messages Wednesday at 10:11pm saying,"Whats up with you?".

I say,"Just enjoying myself. How are you?"
He says "Whatever that means. I'm cool."

I'm so in tune with what I got going that I forget to respond honestly.

Is he already "testing" me

I'm venting. I guess I'm just so tired of everything.

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Wow...poor guy doesn't have a chance in hell with you eh? Take that bitterness you have going on and try to make some positives out of it. Anyone who compares a previous relationship by sun sign to someone they don't even know yet has serious issues. Especially when astrology does NOT definitively define one. Upbringing and life experience does. This:

"Monday he texts me "I can't wait for Wednesday to come." No time was really set.

Wednesday comes. I end up doing my own thing, not worried about it. Obviously he wasn't serious."

You bitterly assumed, and didn't ask him a time or show any interest.
Speaks volumes of your character. He saw it too when he says:

Posted by LetltB

Posted by BeaCancer91

The NOW Taurus I am talking to now seems more mature, and he's not "sweet" just polite. He's just being himself. He's a little salty that I didn't mention or seem upset about our NOT meeting Wednesday. Gave me a chuckle. 🙂 Hm

He mirrored back your behavior. How'd it feel?

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It shook me.

Posted by KittyKnitter
and there is more to us than our sunsign. even if he did have some negative traits of the Taurus sign, maturity makes the big difference. I don't think he is testing you. he is trying to get to know you. he didn't hurt you so take him as someone you don't know yet.

when I first met my Taurus guy online, I had some bitterness in me and I had an attitude that Taurus sensed immediately. he told me a guy would need a suit of armor to get next to me and I said that all he needed was two loving arms and a loving heart but I had yet to find that. I had been very badly hurt recently and was being cautious. if we make assumptions and do or say things because we anticipate certain reactions or certain attitudes, we create the circumstances to get the behavior we are expecting. if you cannot get to know this guy without worrying if he is going to be like your ex, better to end contact or just have him as a friend.

If he so decides talk to me again, I will try to change my attitude, you are right

Posted by LetltB
Anyone who is still bitter, hurt or angry over a relationship that ended SHOULD NOT be looking for or be in ANY relationship PERIOD!!! It's not fair to the next person, not to mention the person hurting is NOT ready mentally or emotionally to carry a new relationship until the previous relationship has been grieved and FORGOTTEN. Don't expect the next person to be your bandaid. It doesn't work, and it will fail miserably.

I'm not looking to date him.

Posted by BeaCancer91

Posted by LetltB
Anyone who is still bitter, hurt or angry over a relationship that ended SHOULD NOT be looking for or be in ANY relationship PERIOD!!! It's not fair to the next person, not to mention the person hurting is NOT ready mentally or emotionally to carry a new relationship until the previous relationship has been grieved and FORGOTTEN. Don't expect the next person to be your bandaid. It doesn't work, and it will fail miserably.

I'm not looking to date him.

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Too bad he doesn't know this, he wouldn't of asked to see you. You may want to let him know your head is still up the ~other~ Taurus' ass. No need to use this new guy for attention you are lacking from the other. Not nice, and extremely immature.

You seem to be looking for signs of game where there are none.

@lettib

I rather not drag a virtual stranger into my drama, but I have let him know I'm not in the best place as far as my emotions are, as well as my heart.

He understood.

He's not looking to date either. We are mutual in what we both want, nothing serious, just a friendship, just a chat buddy, even some one to hang out with.

Im not looking for attention. I wasn't looking for him. He initiated the first "step" with me, we chatted friendly upon meeting, and I even drifted away for a few days only for him to pop back up.

We are on the same page. So I'm not leading him on or telling him any wrong information. I don't see how any of that is immature, but OK

@Damnata

I was.. I'm even afraid as to why he isn't playing games. I got use to the back and fourth.

Posted by BeaCancer91
@lettib

I rather not drag a virtual stranger into my drama, but I have let him know I'm not in the best place as far as my emotions are, as well as my heart.

He understood.

He's not looking to date either. We are mutual in what we both want, nothing serious, just a friendship, just a chat buddy, even some one to hang out with.

Im not looking for attention. I wasn't looking for him. He initiated the first "step" with me, we chatted friendly upon meeting, and I even drifted away for a few days only for him to pop back up.

We are on the same page. So I'm not leading him on or telling him any wrong information. I don't see how any of that is immature, but OK

Telling him you're not in the "best place" regarding emotions is certainly not telling him you are still in contact and not over another guy. I don't care how you choose to spin it. He has a right to know, it's what FRIENDS do. Honesty goes a long way. If you have no intention of any relationship with this guy, what's the harm in telling him about the other guy? Most men I know won't pursue a friendship or ask a woman out if he knew there was another man involved. But you know that don't you?

@lettib

I know that.

@letitb

And that's not true for a lot of guys. Well most guy I've known in the past. If a guy wants you ..even knowing there is some one else..you are even remotely dealing with they still are determined to "have" you how ever they may want you.. But I hear you