I was with my libra for 3 1/2 years. Things got a big rocky a year ago and I cheated on her. We didn't talk for a month and then we got back together. Right after we got back together we had to separate because of work and had been in a long distance relationship with a lot of arguing and trust issues . 2 months ago she accused me of doing something that hurt me and I didn't speak to her for 5 days, she flipped out and broke up with me . For two months we have been fighting, except two weeks ago I came down to and we spent a week together and everything was great except for the fact she didn't want to get back together. Two days after I left we got into another blow out fight. I am back in the area again for the rest of the winter. Everyone is telling me to give her space, to me it doesn't make sense because we have been apart for so long , when we are together it is fun for the both of us and I want her to see and remember who we were together. She says right now she likes being single but she is making bad decisions , binge drinking and not taking care of herself . After we spend time together she starts to feel confused about what she wants but says she would like to be together again in the future. I have noticed my mistakes in the relationship, she told me I should talk to someone and now I am doing that. The next time I see her will be a week from today. Any suggestions ?
That ruined the entire relationship. Once the trust is gone, you've got nothing, so your silly little fantasies of what you think your relationship still has would be unfounded. You fucked all of it up when you decided to be an asshole and cheat. Now you want to force this to happen because it's what YOU want?
Leave her alone already. If she really wants to give you another chance (which she shouldn't, tbh), she'll come around. You really have no place to be expecting to get your ex back.
At some point, the toxicity level is very high. Let her go for her sake and try to maybe give back by volunteering or doing something spiritual to bring goodness towards you.
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I was with my libra for 3 1/2 years. Things got a big rocky a year ago and I cheated on her. We didn't talk for a month and then we got back together. Right after we got back together we had to separate because of work and had been in a long distance relationship with a lot of arguing and trust issues . 2 months ago she accused me of doing something that hurt me and I didn't speak to her for 5 days, she flipped out and broke up with me . For two months we have been fighting, except two weeks ago I came down to and we spent a week together and everything was great except for the fact she didn't want to get back together. Two days after I left we got into another blow out fight. I am back in the area again for the rest of the winter. Everyone is telling me to give her space, to me it doesn't make sense because we have been apart for so long , when we are together it is fun for the both of us and I want her to see and remember who we were together. She says right now she likes being single but she is making bad decisions , binge drinking and not taking care of herself . After we spend time together she starts to feel confused about what she wants but says she would like to be together again in the future. I have noticed my mistakes in the relationship, she told me I should talk to someone and now I am doing that. The next time I see her will be a week from today. Any suggestions ?