I have a crush on a gay man... Please help!!!

I try to be an open minded individual, but this is gross. Pick a side and stay there. Ick. What does a straight female see in a guy who acts like a girl??

attraction is attraction . . . Im a scorpio too and I say if you felt that this was a mutual thing that you're probably right . . . I dunno though if you should pursue it . . . same sex or not . . . he is in a relationship.



I've been attracted to a gay guy before too

lol in my freshman year of high school I had A HUGE crush on this guy in my marching band . . .

a few months ago I randomly found his myspace . . .

he's gay.

I found this pretty shocking I woulda never guessed . . . though my best friend always said she knew . . . wtf lol


I find myself attracted to somewhat feminine males . . . I find them more mysterious than blunt masculine types . . . they just seem to have something more to them . . . I don't mean like the gay guy accent or like gay hand gestures . . . just more along the lines of you can tell they were around more woman than men growing up.

Noche, I feel for you. I had the opposite, a gay man attrated to me but since I knew he was gay, and wasn't attracted to him, nothing ever happened. Attraction can happen on mutual levels even when one is gay but ultimatley it will not work out. You will never b e able to give him everything he needs. So enjoy it for what it is but move on to someone who can give you more.