i need a help about a cancer guy

I am a capricorn girl and he is cancer. I know...

Heres my story, and I know i fucked up. I met this guy and we started going out a lot. Talking everyday, texting etc. He would always be the first to contact. When we tried sleeping together, he couldnt. Tried it another time, couldnt get hard again.

I told him its totally fine and that i dont mind. And i dont. But one night, i got too drunk, saw him in a club and told him the worst things ever. How he should go see other girls, and ill see other men, we r not serious, he is impotent etc. Hit his ego 1/1. The next morning i apologized and he said its okay. After that we did talk, but i noticed he was getting colder. I went on vacation and we texted every other day. Suddenly he started sometimes not even seeing my messages etc. After i got back home, we saw each other and everything was fine. He loves joking so we had a laugh, kissed etc. After that, less and less contact. When i told him we should meet he just said: when we find some time.

After that he even didnt let me know if we r meeting or not for 8 hours where i got really mad and he said i am emotional, i should calm down, that he would call, and he never called-excuse was he was sick. I even saw him once with a girl and ignored him, faced him with that in the morning where he said i was childish not saying hi and that she is no one special. One of his friends met me and said: oh you are that blonde he kept talking about- trust me he likes u a lot.One night we met in a club, he asked me to go to a hotel with him, and i said there was no point and that he doesnt care. He started crying saying he has had some hard times- he is in military here. We slept together that night and it was better. In the morning i was the one trying to get where we r standing and he was just joking avoiding it. I said lets talk, text but be with other people, he said perfect. after that id text first he would just ignore or reply shortly. Next weekend, he danced with other girls but when he saw some guy was talking to me he just came over and stood between us. Now, i dont get him, and i dont wanna lose him. Ill just stop contacting him and ignore him if he does. Is his ego so hurt that he is afraid commiting because i could hurt him again, or is he just a guy who doesnt give a fuck

wow...um that's pretty harsh. I would say that he doesn't think your relationship material due to the nasty things you said. But your probably hot and good in bed and he doesn't want to give that up or lose it to someone else either.

When I was a very, very young emotional woman I had an ex-boyfriend who was still a friend give me some incredibly wise words of wisdom that have always stuck with me "I still care about you and of course I still want to sleep with you, but so does that guy, and that guy, and probably that guys Dad. You're hot and we are guys. That doesn't mean that any of us want to date you and deal with all of your emotional bull****"

It was kind of a wake up call for me.

Yeah... you can't take back what you said. Cancer men are very sensitive. Best to move on