In Love with a Virgo who is confused - HELP!!

My story goes like this. My husband cheated on me and I went on craig's list looking for something not sure what, but something. I saw an ad that read..."wife cheated looking for revenge". I immediately responded. We talk for about 2 months everyday and few times a day... Finally we meet in person but I liked him so much as a friend I was afraid to let it go any further...I couldn't resist and kissed him. From then on, we spent almost everyday together he made me feel amazing... he was amazing. Due to our situations we have ran into some problems alot of insecurties from both of us. He started getting distance & I pushed him and he said he missed "some" things about his ex, I asked if you though about getting together with her and he said "sometimes". I told him we should break up then. I later told him I made a mistake and didn't want to lose him, and he told me he needed to find himself and I did too. We were the "right people, but wrong time". He told him he loves me and will I will always have a piece of his heart. Oh two days later, his wife was at his apt and I told him I was coming over.. he said no.. she was there.. I got really upset. It's just been a mess.....

Now I am so confused.. I want him back.. What do I do?

Well that's why rebound sucks. My roommate and I are talking about it and we both agree that you should let him go. He's trying to patch things up and it probably should be doing the same with your own ex. If not smooth things over and create closure. Keep it as a friendship WITHOUT BENEFITS and don't lose contact. Wait and see how their relationship turns out. I mean you set yourself up as back up anyway, So just be there for him if things don't work for him.

^ agree.

Okay so an update... he brings me the rest of my stuff today. We make out alittle bit (but didn't sleep together). He tells me "just one last time I want to feel that closeness to you" and "if only it was a year later". I told him I would be here if the needed me and to go to what he has to do (which is really hard for me.. I'm an aries with a very aggresive personality). Then he tells me that he's can't see me for alittle while because it's too hard... he cares so much but is trying not too.....

I am so confused!!! I dont know what he wants from me!

Dude, I just told you what to do 😆! The guy doesn't know what he wants. Back off and let him figure it out so that you don't get as hurt in case everything blows up in your face.

^ Agreed