Just Lazy AF Zodiacs...

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by GemCurioThe1 on Wednesday, September 30, 2020 and has 7 replies.

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@GemCurioThe1
6 Years

Now there's a huge difference between building up a partner and taking care of a MF... And there are some wait for the food to walk in their mouths Zodiac experiences out there with relationships where you just had to go. Freely vent below. Public Discussion is how we all collectively grow...

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6 Years

The laziest and most trifling I have ever seen was an Aries Woman. Now I know some hard working Aries people in general, but this one refused to do anything. She wouldn't work. She wouldn't cook. She wouldn't clean. She wouldn't even attempt to learn something new. She literally just wanted to lay around all day and sail the internet. I mean she was even too lazy to make excuses. The good thing was I knew when I left her, she would be far too lazy to ever look for me...lol

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Yes as a general rule I agree.

But part of a successful partnership is being able to depend on your partner in moments of weakness. And on the flip side, lifting or carrying your partner and being a source of strength.

Being taken care of is not anything to be ashamed about, nor is it an indicator that your using the other person. In fact these types of vulnerable moments serve to bring you together and strengthen the bond.

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6 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune

Yes as a general rule I agree.

But part of a successful partnership is being able to depend on your partner in moments of weakness. And on the flip side, lifting or carrying your partner and being a source of strength.

Being taken care of is not anything to be ashamed about, nor is it an indicator that your using the other person. In fact these types of vulnerable moments serve to bring you together and strengthen the bond.

I'm not talking about moments. I'm talking about life style s. I understand how people might confuse the two. I agree with you also.

In contrast, there's always a freeloader who cross paths with us and we catch them eating our wafers and biscuits in the evening. Just saying..

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by GemCurioThe1

Posted by LadyNeptune

Yes as a general rule I agree.

But part of a successful partnership is being able to depend on your partner in moments of weakness. And on the flip side, lifting or carrying your partner and being a source of strength.

Being taken care of is not anything to be ashamed about, nor is it an indicator that your using the other person. In fact these types of vulnerable moments serve to bring you together and strengthen the bond.

I'm not talking about moments. I'm talking about life style s. I understand how people might confuse the two. I agree with you also.

In contrast, there's always a freeloader who cross paths with us and we catch them eating our wafers and biscuits in the evening. Just saying..

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I suppose it depends as well on the relationship.

Some men look for a trophy wife and want her to be little more than arm candy. And vice vs. gender wise. Seeking arrangements anyone?

Freeloaders don't last long because people who don't tolerate them won't allow that energy to stick around.

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14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

Posted by GemCurioThe1

The laziest and most trifling I have ever seen was an Aries Woman. Now I know some hard working Aries people in general, but this one refused to do anything. She wouldn't work. She wouldn't cook. She wouldn't clean. She wouldn't even attempt to learn something new. She literally just wanted to lay around all day and sail the internet. I mean she was even too lazy to make excuses. The good thing was I knew when I left her, she would be far too lazy to ever look for me...lol

That sounded like depression not laziness.