Leo woman and Virgo Man ...will it ever work

I met a Virgo man about a month and 1/2 ago. At first, he was calling, texting etc... pursuing me totally. He was so considerate and so nice. I been divorced since July. He recently divorced. He admitted he had some financial problems because he is living with relatives and was battling things as a result of a bad divorce. I told him I understood that and we often talked about out problems/solutions etc...The conversations were therapy for both of us. I think we really connected in a way.

At times when I started to ask questions about his situation he would complain of a headache and just say he do not want to talk about it. He do not like questions at all. He would call all the time and want to spend time with me but once we started to get closer he just shut down. He said he just had a lot going on at the time and he did not want to be around me in a bad mood. The calls and texts was less frequent. I had to do all the calling and would leave meassages. I really think he should call sometimes.

He sent me a text and said he would call but he never did. Its been 2 weeks now and I have not heard from him. I don't know if I should call him or not. I just want to make sure that he is OK. I really do like him but I am not the one to be a pest or chase someone down if he don't want to be bothered. I think I have given him enough space. I am really afraid to call I don't want to push him away. I don't know if I am being dumped. Any advice?

I couple years back I chased a Leo for bit. From what little I read at the time, Leo's and Virgo's either click super well complimenting each other or are polar opposites.

With her and I, the x-factor between us was good and we clicked immediately. Mind you, we we're both very busy with our respective jobs, family, friends, other activites, etc. but we're MORE than happy to make time for each other.

(Mind you, I always believe that there's never enough time for everything in the day but always enough time for something / someone important)

Eventually though, we just stopped clicking. Neither of us really we're able to put a finger on why either. We just stopped enjoying spending time together. Started feeling like it was more effort than pleasure to be together. Random fights for no apparent reason giving us an excuse to leave an do our own thing. Eventually I decided to withdraw and bolted. (Yea I know, Virgo at its best)

Like Rainfairy mentioned, sometime's its best to just sort shit out on your own and its what I ended up doing. A month of so later I just randomly appeared back in her life. After I let her vent about me bolting and gave her time to calm down, we did eventually talk it out and decide to just stay friends.

About a half a year later, we we're hanging out and ended up talking about our "past". We both admitted that we made better friends than lovers.

Now my little tale is far from the same as your situation but there aren't may Virgo/Leo stories out there so thought I'd share 😛

Even if the end result isn't what you we're hoping for, if he values you as a friend, he'll call ya.

Now one thing you also mentioned is you just want to know he's okay. There may not be any harm in just finding out. With my current g/f, if we're in an arguement and are blowing off some steam from each other, we still make sure the other is okay.

I want to say Thanks! to everyone who responded. All of your insight has helped me understand this roller coaster relationship. Here is an update...

...I did hear from him finally and we went out a couple of times and talked. He is still "very busy" with work and trying to get his life together so his pattern of calling every 2 weeks has not changed. I think we are really becoming real good friends. I am taking it slow with him and being very patient. ( I don't really have a choice but too). He is such a nice guy, I hope maybe one day we could develop a long-term relationship with a closeness. I do have to admit that when he disappears and I don't hear from him I miss him alot. The strange thing is though when we do finally see each other after 2 weeks or so he acts as if everything is completely fine...Odd.We kinda start off where we left off.

Virgo's are too staid for Leo's. It's difficult for them to express themselves; that's me dating a virgo for 4 months. However, he's still a great friend and agreed that he's not an emotional creature.