Letting go...

and just being... can you?

How do you cope when you try to maintain so much control. Maybe this is more of a Cap issue, or earth and possibly fire sign. Air & Water flow freely, earth and fire need containment. Yes?

Definitely. It's a struggle. My natal chart is only Fire and Earth.

No. I can't let go and just be. I have to have some kind of focus or direction.

I separate myself from just about anything, fairly easy.

I'm not one to hold on .... which should be odd for me considering my moon.

If I can't do anything about it,...then I will force myself to let go. Not easy because I am a control freak. But my mind is strong and I know it's the only way. Then I set another focus and go with that making sure it's something that will take a lot of time and energy to accomplish.

I'm an air sign...but perhaps my Leo moon.

this water sign does NOT flow freely. I wish. I have major control issues.

I'm sun- water/scorpio- FIXED
asc- air/ aquarius- FIXED
moon- earth/ taurus- FIXED (and squared between moon and sun)
venus- air... but its LIBRA (of course)

Letting go..? Impossible!
But that is only if you get through the fixed force fields in the first place 😉

This is timely. I've been praying for peace and to let go of my heartache and you know I feel lighter. Crying helps too. I think it's good for the soul. I had a good crying jag early this week, something I rarely let myself feel. And I felt so much lighter after it. I think letting go is hard. Specially for us crabbies. But time heals all wounds. Letting go is really important because memories can't love you back and won't move you forward. I'm trying to clear the space for new experiences and realize at this point, I'm not yet ready to share my life with a man again. But I'm getting there and jupiter's entered my sign for a year. I'm really hoping for some good fortune this year and am planting new seeds. Good luck on letting go and know we all struggle to do just that at times.