Libra women confused with Virgo man

I am Libra. Born sept 24. Do I have Virgo traits ??

So I have always been attracted to Scorpios, sag and aquaria men. All these men have always made same comments that I an cold , detached and don't express my emotions. Last Aquarius man told me i need learn to speak from the heart and to stop over analyzing everyhing. I don't like over clingy men, but I do like attention. So recently have been seeing a Virgo man. when I have been with him I have notice I detached myslef from him. Also he does the same. When we do talk about topics that interest both of us it feels nice and I feel a connection we smile and I can feel the attraction between us both, but as soon as its over back to our detached selves. We did deed the first date . which I know its a no no for virgos.I feel in the bed room we connect well and we are more affectionate. Cuddling, forehead kissing, talking,. First few times we hung out we cuddle he was the one telling me to sit next to him and hugging( i always sit away from him). Which was nice but not something I usually do. Now he doesn't ask.not sure if he got tired of asking. I dont know if I should initiate cuddling and sitting next to him. This all seem so new. Especially because other men I dated always wer the ones chasing and I was the one pushing away. I have always been able to read men , but this guy I feel I get mixed signals or maybe his to much like me.

texting .should I with a Virgo even if he doesn't text. I know if I text he will msg back but there's days I just don't feel like it.if I text good morning everyday is that yo much texting — I like this one a lot but I am do lost. I don't want him to think I sm nor interested when I really am.

Anyone —?? Help me out 🙂

I have a friend 24 step, and I am avirgo, honestly same situation. He seems detached but interested in me and I know that. I like him being detached Cuba I know what he is thinking we like spending time with each other but we don't cling to ea h other. Corgis are attracted to that kind of people just keep going, be yourself and text when you feel like it. Not every day if he thinks you are not interested he won't be interested as well.
Tell me alittle bit more about your personality were is your Venus, and what do you think about when you get detached?

I don't really think of anything lol I just naturally that way. I don't cling because if someone does it to me i feel smothered . So I feel they may feel the same way and don't want to suffocate the person I am interested in. I am not the type that textes everyday. I like my space and I don't like to be checking in with someone ever min. Also I can't read him. He seems to be just one level. Even his sarcasm I don't get sometime lol I have a feeling he is dating other people but I don't want to ask. I don't know what we are. Now thinking maybe friends with benefit. I really hate asking and expressing how I feel.