Moon opposite venus. Can someone with this placement ever be happy?

I feel this placement leads to disappointment in non platonic relationships. I'll meet someone and they seem great but then the sparks just fades away. Im currently dating a girl and we have a sun venus conjunction double whammy. It's great and all but now I'm not as comfortable as when I'm with someone whos sun conjuncts my moon.

Any input on this?

So me having a moon in cap and venus in cancer I need someone with a sun in cap and moon in cancer? This is a random example I'm giving here.

If I'm reading this right it's funny cause people who have bad aspects tend to come off crazy and the best match for them is someone else who has bad aspects aka just as crazy.