natal charts and relationships, advice please

Hi Guys
Came across this site by pure chance. thought i would ask for some advice im an auqa currently dating a Virgo guy, have been for the last 10 months, first few months it was great. Then a few cracks, you know, what you'd expect sometimes in a relationship; a few disagreements but nothing major but for some reason my Virgo guy has changed more over the last few weeks. Saying he's fine but his actions are WAY off the mark! Rarely calls, texts, meet up etc, but then when we do speak/see each other he's ok and nothing is wrong, but yet he isnt as emotionally attached to me as before, kindda very hot and cold and rather stubborn, as far as he's concerned hes right about everything all of a sudden, very little compromise, could even say become that little bit controlling. All very confusing, when i ask him if he's ok he gets a bit aggitated with me when i want to talk about the relationship and even said last night that he would have no problem whatsoever telling me if he didnt wanna be together, realises he's being cautious but doesnt know why and then to top it off saya if it works it works if it doesnt it doesnt!?? Go figure! Anyho i did one of those natal charts and wondered if all this kinda stuff would, i duuno, well kindda help me understand a bit more, worth a go:-
Me
rising sun: gemini
sun: aquarius
moon: virgo
mercury: capricorn
venus: aquarius
mars: cancer
jupiter: gemini
saturn: leo
Uranus: scorpio
neptunr: sagittarius
pluto: libra

virgoguy
rising sun: scorpio
sun: virgo
moon: lep
mercury: libra
venus: virgo
mars: libra
jupiter: pisces
saturn: cancer
uranus: libra
neptune: sagittarius
pluto: libra

Don't think this is an astrological issue but you can get a free relationship chart. This is a good one: http://abacusastrology.co.uk/<BR>
Looks like he's pulling back. No chart can tell you what's going on than he can. If he can't-won't, you might want to reconsider things.

Virgos are just strange period. I would suggest dating alot of other guys and not giving him a thought. If he is interested, let him chase you. Really simple. Don't do nothing but focus on you and what makes you happy. Do you really want to waste time (as I have) trying to figure people out? Time is ticking....and you don't get it back.....You miss out on being happy and LIVING.

I am a virgo btw. I blow people off alot...Virgo Sun and Aquarius Moon.... 🙂

Even tho I want them to chase me.......I can "appear" aloof and uninterested. Let him chase you and let him know your interested but don't overdo it....and if he doesn't, you have your answer.