waiting.........

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Virgo07 on Monday, June 28, 2010 and has 13 replies.

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@Virgo07
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

am i weird for waiting for a girl to break up with her bf? is it selfish or mean that i want it to happen? i got to know her a lil and talked on the phone with her, but she got back with the kid (she knew him for a while) and i still want her baddddddd. shes a cap btw...

the dude is a complete prick on top of it

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
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Your a virgo so im guessing u got a good head on ur shoulders...
Do you understand the rebound situation? well ur putting urself in one. The guys might be a prick but it dont matter because she might be connected to him emotionally still. Its a gonna be a gamble for you.
Its not mean to want whats best for someone.....u might think the guys a prick because shes telling u this but in reaity she could just want a guy to vent to for attention.
personally I wouldnt be so desperate and move on cos i know I'm hot enough to pull better chicks or in my case dudes.

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21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

You are 19 calling someone else a kid?

Is this conclusion of him being a prick something that is being based off of what she says?

If he is a prick and she wants HIM .. then she is a prickess, no?

In her eyes, he's great, no matter what lies she tells you, because if he was indeed a prick .... then she wouldn't want him.

That is ... unless she is a prickess.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
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from this site I love it how when people answer peoples questions its always in black or white I always used to be a grey person and it used to piss people off and get myself into trouble

I pretty much fabricate things that are inbetween the lines to make the problem seem better but now i dont do that thanks so people from here like nefer and p angel

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@Virgo07
17 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

well i know about rebounds and the bumblefuck of emotions and shizz, but ive never been in the situation...

well the guy isnt that bad, i just dont like him. no harm in waiting around though right?

amandus?? is? jason??

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Posted by Virgo07
am i weird for waiting for a girl to break up with her bf? is it selfish or mean that i want it to happen? i got to know her a lil and talked on the phone with her, but she got back with the kid (she knew him for a while) and i still want her baddddddd. shes a cap btw...

the dude is a complete prick on top of it

You know, what I've discovered -- so of the best relationships come from the worse break ups.

It may not make sense on text but I hope you know what I mean. Morally, it may not be the coolest thing to do, but you like this girl and you want her to breakup with her bf. Those are feelings, everyone has them, even virgos 😉

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Posted by Virgo07
am i weird for waiting for a girl to break up with her bf? is it selfish or mean that i want it to happen? i got to know her a lil and talked on the phone with her, but she got back with the kid (she knew him for a while) and i still want her baddddddd. shes a cap btw...

the dude is a complete prick on top of it

You know, what I've discovered -- so of the best relationships come from the worse break ups.

It may not make sense on text but I hope you know what I mean. Morally, it may not be the coolest thing to do, but you like this girl and you want her to breakup with her bf. Those are feelings, everyone has them, even virgos 😉

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i get what ur sayin. we virgos got just as many feelings as the rest of em...il tell ya..........

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Posted by Virgo07

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Posted by Virgo07
am i weird for waiting for a girl to break up with her bf? is it selfish or mean that i want it to happen? i got to know her a lil and talked on the phone with her, but she got back with the kid (she knew him for a while) and i still want her baddddddd. shes a cap btw...

the dude is a complete prick on top of it

You know, what I've discovered -- so of the best relationships come from the worse break ups.

It may not make sense on text but I hope you know what I mean. Morally, it may not be the coolest thing to do, but you like this girl and you want her to breakup with her bf. Those are feelings, everyone has them, even virgos 😉

i get what ur sayin. we virgos got just as many feelings as the rest of em...il tell ya..........

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oh yeah, and I'll tell you, when a virgo likes or feels for someone they really, really, really do. There's no bs when it comes to that.

Actually, a virgo will turn around and go after someone else before they go after who they really want because they feel disappointment like the plague -- seriously. They really be let down lightly by someone they "like" then let down hard by someone they are 'really into/love'.

Yep, it will be okay as along as you don't go after the girl too soon, she and her boyfriend haven't broken up yet and you don't want to be involved in that.

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Posted by Midgetbull

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Posted by Virgo07
am i weird for waiting for a girl to break up with her bf? is it selfish or mean that i want it to happen? i got to know her a lil and talked on the phone with her, but she got back with the kid (she knew him for a while) and i still want her baddddddd. shes a cap btw...

the dude is a complete prick on top of it

You know, what I've discovered -- so of the best relationships come from the worse break ups.

It may not make sense on text but I hope you know what I mean. Morally, it may not be the coolest thing to do, but you like this girl and you want her to breakup with her bf. Those are feelings, everyone has them, even virgos 😉

It's true. Some of the best relationships spawn after a bad breakup. But if you pursue her too soon after the breakup, it will just be a rebound, and those just kind of suck.

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I agree, there's nothing good about a rebound. I don't care if you are with the person 10 years later, trust me, there's nothing cool about being the rebound.