Need advice on lustful relationship between Pisces guy and Gemini woman l

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by CarolLadiii1 on Thursday, December 10, 2015 and has 21 replies.

Understanding the Pisces and Gemini Lustful Relationship Dynamic

A Pisces man and Gemini woman may experience a passionate but unpredictable connection. Communication and clarity are key, as Gemini's indecisiveness can cause misunderstandings. Focus on honest dialogue to determine if both are genuinely interested or just attracted to each other. Recognizing each other's needs helps navigate the intense and sometimes fleeting nature of this relationship.

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@frostey91
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Omg... This is a classic case of a Gem Pisces disaster... I don't want to make any other generalizations based off sun signs...

In reality if you want to here from him text him or see him at school. I mean you are in a bad position. He's a ladies man, you know it but that doesn't bother you enough at least that is what you are saying. What you want is a little of his attention and to maybe hang out---you have no expectations. There is no chance for a relationship after you have not communicated with him for 3 weeks and he is a ladies man. However there is hope for communication stop being an indecisive Gemini and be decisive. If that sounds mean I'm sorry. I just look at relationships logically.

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Exactly March Pisces Aquarius energy is the same way. I have Neptune close to sun and cuspy Aquarius Venus and gem 7th house. I never have a relationship, because the timing always sucks.

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@CarolLadiii1
10 Years

Posted by MarchPisc3s
It's hard for us (Pisces men) to commit. In our minds we look at things as seasonal.

I can understand that...it's crazy though because when I told him I liked him he said that's good because I like you too .. But I didn't take it as anything serious I took it as he likes me to as a friend which is cool... So what's the best way to get through to him ??

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@CarolLadiii1
10 Years

Posted by frostey91
Omg... This is a classic case of a Gem Pisces disaster... I don't want to make any other generalizations based off sun signs...

In reality if you want to here from him text him or see him at school. I mean you are in a bad position. He's a ladies man, you know it but that doesn't bother you enough at least that is what you are saying. What you want is a little of his attention and to maybe hang out---you have no expectations. There is no chance for a relationship after you have not communicated with him for 3 weeks and he is a ladies man. However there is hope for communication stop being an indecisive Gemini and be decisive. If that sounds mean I'm sorry. I just look at relationships logically.

I don't want a relationship just friendship and I actually wished him luck on his game but got no response... And no that's not mean I appreciate that! We aren't in school

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21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by CarolLadiii1

He was staying in town at the hotel I was working at ...

I can't lie as fine as he was I only wanted one thing from him .... then hooked up 3 days later which was great. He had about a week left before he left so we hooked up again

A few days later he invited me to his house which is a couple hrs away ..... basically we've been hooking up at least once a month for the past 3 mo

How can I get him back without seeming to pushy or overly aggressive?

I asked him did he find what he was looking for because I saw he unfollowed me on Instagram
I want him to be able to trust me.
I would like to know how he feels about me
asking him a question like that through text I'd rather ask him face to face.
I'm just not ready to let go just yet so ...... how can I win him over

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But the thing is the guy has no obligation to her and as she describes her he is not in her mind. She may not even be able to get to know him. I would make no assumptions with him. Maybe I'm thinking pessimistically. Though I do think there is a decent chance he will talk back if she engages him. Personally if someone doesn't want to be my friend I don't go the extra mile. There are 7 billion other people just saying.

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@CarolLadiii1
10 Years

Posted by frostey91
But the thing is the guy has no obligation to her and as she describes her he is not in her mind. She may not even be able to get to know him. I would make no assumptions with him. Maybe I'm thinking pessimistically. Though I do think there is a decent chance he will talk back if she engages him. Personally if someone doesn't want to be my friend I don't go the extra mile. There are 7 billion other people just saying.

I guess your right I do want to be friends with him I don't think he trust people

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Exactly you want something or you would not have posted this.

I think Gem and Pisces is a "fun" combo but they both get bored easily one of them will get bored one is emotional the other is more communicative etc.

They both need space it's never a good long term scenario.

Just text him and be like hey we haven't talked in a while and I just want to say hey

Isn't that a safe bet—

Don't even fret over this shit

How old are you?

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@CarolLadiii1
10 Years

Posted by frostey91
Exactly you want something or you would not have posted this.

I think Gem and Pisces is a "fun" combo but they both get bored easily one of them will get bored one is emotional the other is more communicative etc.

They both need space it's never a good long term scenario.

Just text him and be like hey we haven't talked in a while and I just want to say hey

Isn't that a safe bet—

Don't even fret over this shit

How old are you?

Yeah I think that's about right but age difference ...he is living his life he's two years younger than me... I'm 25

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@frostey91
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Eh nooooo. It's not the age difference. You can believe that if you want. 25 vs 23 is not a difference if you are into someone or want to be his friend. They are not made for each other. That is like saying Libra and Cap are made for each other.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Alls this is a young girl who is trying to catch/snare a man using her pussy and she's failing because men are smarter than women in this regard ... so she has come to dxp to have a tantrum about it. And since she thinks she's a prize, her mind is rendered idiot status, and so she continues to blame him for not falling for her pussy usage.

ssdd