New Relationship for Cancer Female and Pisces Male

I'm a Cancer and I'm new to this site and hoped someone could give me some insight regarding Pisces men as I just met my first one and WOW...what a man.
He messaged me on an online dating site we were on and our first conversation lasted over 17 straight hours. His charm and tenderness I did buy in the beginning because I've been played before and as a Cancer, my shell is tough and thought he was too good to be true! My Prince Charming.
We meet in person on the 4th day and it was as though we'd known each other all our lives. We are both going l through separations, have kids, know a lot of mutual people, same music...everything in common. We saw each other every night and 12 days in he asked me if I'd spend the night. That night we has sex and it was literally magical. He then wanted me to stay every night, which I usually did when I didn't have my kids. We laughed, shared, listened and consoled each other. This continued for about 9 weeks, always excited to see each other.
Last week we were teasing about our online profiles and he said his membership ended and he didn't want to pay to extend it. I left as usual to head home and on my way to home I was messaged I has a "like". When I opened to see who this new man was I saw my Pisces was online! In 15 min he's paid and renewed his account and obviously chatting. He didn't contact me all day that day. He didn't even reply to an evening text until the next morning. The next week he'd message me randomly like nothing had changed and made plans with me 2x both times he cancelled.
As a very insecure Cancer, I was getting angrier and hurt more each day. So I texted him wishing him luck but I knew something had changed and he was pulling away from me. I told him how special he was and I was glad I got to spend time with him, etc...very kind text. He replied "ouch, if that's what you want but I don't"...this lead to us now communicating again. He invited me out a few days later and I spent the night like I always used to. When he first picked me up he look nervous and sad. Then he put his hand our without looking at me and when I took it, I felt his body just completely relax. He made me comfortable to feel like nothing ever happened. He did say "Catherine I haven't met or slept with anyone. I promise" and that's the only comment he'd made about my breaking up with him. After that night (2 nights ago) he hasn't contacted me again.
My plan is to leave him alone as I did the last time. I feel if he wants to see me he would. But I've fallen hard for him and I've told him I think he's amazing but not that I feel like I'm falling in love.
Those 3-4 weeks were so beautiful and transcendent that I don't want that to end but I also don't want to be played for a fool either!
I'm so torn... I adore him and think he's a great guy but a Pisces. As I sometimes can't control my cold withdraw when I'm hurt. So I don't know which way to go on this.

It's a bit shady when someone says one thing and does another... Then acts distant, uninterested. i could be wrong, but I think he got swept up in the magical moments with you and maybe he is coming down from that high so either he is having second thoughts or he is scared to let love in again.

See if you can meet up with him again and have a straightforward conversation, tell him you feel he has been pulling away recently and you would like to know why. Address his behavior, but not the lieing, or anything accusatory so he doesn't automatically get defensive. He knows he has been acting inconsiderate, which is why you get that guilty feeling from him, now you need to to find out why things have changed.

@cancer68 Try to stay on guard for a while and do not trust him to soon...
I just ended my dating with my first pisces guy. He is a very confusing guy for me. I do not know if this is the pisces sign in general or just him as a person. But he was kind of like you describe your pisces man. Very attentive and loving in the beginning, always telling me how much he loves me and that I'm his dream woman. Well as a scorpio, I'm very guarded and these words felt strange and dishonest to me (after only a couple of dates).. But I liked him for other stuff he did and tried to make this relationship work. He also told me several times that he stopped all other online dating stuff and just wants to get to know me better. I cannot verify that, because I'm not a snoopy person. But he showed me his phone one time and unfortunately I could see on there that he was still telling his ex girlfriend lovely stuff. So I ended things... Pisces are not for me, too dreamy, watery, slippery, cheaty, pick one... :-)

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are not to be trusted!

Great move on your part

@SensitiveBlues Well unfortunately I believe this as well, athough I'm sad that I never seem to meet my Mr. Right, just Mr. Player, Mr. Cheater or Mr. Boring. My dad is also a pisces and although he has some nice sides, he cheated on my mum his whole life and left her for another woman when my mum had a seriuos illness. I've broken contact with him ever since and have a hard time forgiving him...

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Pisces men are not to be trusted!

Great move on your part

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I'm a cancer and recently felt the same connection with a pisces guy, I wanted to be just good friends but somehow I can't help but feel an emotional bond, I don't know if it's love or infatuation but emotionally, it seems we are on a same level and that's hard to escape for water signs.