oDD behavior

Ok so I'm going to make this short and simple.

Dated an Aries guy for 5 months long distance.
Just came home to see him last week.
Seen him only once.
It has been a week since I seen him and spoke to him.
I texted him twice, both times he left me with non-chalant responces or that he was busy and would call me back (which never happened).
I have not spoke to him on the phone nor seen him.
We made plans, he never came through with them.

What is going on!? I am actually very hurt by this because I do not know what is going on and I feel as if he pushes me to the side ((especially when his friends are involved)). I thought being home would be better- but I guess it is worst.

I was just going to call him and ask him what the hell is up.

suggestions please...

It's only a week, I'd give it longer seeing as he's adapted to being away from you for 5 months. That's just my guess though.

Fireyearth....from what you have written, sounds to me (and I could be mistaken) he is just not that interested. It is not you...maybe he is not ready to be in a relationship at the moment.

If you do not want to be discombobulated by this experience, accept what is happening (do not take it personally) and find things to do that make you happy - keep living your life, joyfully.

If he is to return, he will.

Next! 😉

"maybe he is not ready to be in a relationship at the moment."

You are right. We spoke and he doesn't... I'm hurt but life goes on...

sorta had an Aries as a "do-buddy" for a number of months. we got close right before he went away. when he came back. I even had his dog for these months. I was not the 1st person he called. I found out from the roommate when he was to return. that night I was there wtih the dog. not long after, a girl, who'd come to the many happy hours we all did on Fri's- she was there. they wound up dating and I was a done deal.
he may have another on the flip side. Aries are so into the person they are into. They dont tend to cheat- at least none that I knew of. Only if you show the slighest hint of someone else they are gone in a heartbeat and never look back.
I seriously dated an Aries years and years ago. I stupidly called the Scorp. guy before him coming back home from "leave" Aries was gone in an instant and never bothered w. me again.

stupidly still the aScorp. cheated on me constantly and Aries was the funniest best person to me-never cheated ever. Sent me things constantly in the mail when I was away. Scorp. practically ignored me except when I came home. what the hell was wrong w. me? oh, I know- youth.