Painful connection

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by virgoOPPP on Monday, February 7, 2022 and has 3 replies.

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Do you find the 5th/9th house synastry somehow unbalanced and even eventually painful? Almost as if the attraction is based on an idea/illusion about each other that eventually breaks down?

The 5th house person always seems to be the more smitten one (house of romance) but the person who has them on their 9th treat them as some kind of learning experience/milestone (house of discovery/learning/wisdom), so essentially the 9th house person ends up using the 5th house person?