Pisces Sun, Cancer Moon & Venus in Aries

I finally got an accurate chart on my boyfriend. The biggest difference is he has a Pisces Ascendant not Gemini as previously believed. I do have a Gemini Ascendant.

If anyone knows anything about charts can you please enlighten me? Can this combo work?

He:

Sun Pisces 10.00 Ascendant Pisces 18.14
Moon Cancer 8.41 II Cancer 13.01
Mercury Aquarius 27.14 III Leo 8.08
Venus Aries 20.17 IV Virgo 6.30
Mars Aquarius 14.54 V Libra 9.28
Jupiter Taurus 24.19 VI Scorpio 14.48
Saturn Leo 11.25 R VII Sagittarius 18.14
Uranus Scorpio 11.41 R VIII Capricorn 13.01
Neptune Sagittarius 16.04 IX Aquarius 8.08
Pluto Libra 13.42 R Midheaven Pisces 6.30
Lilith Taurus 24.03 XI Aries 9.28
Asc node Libra 25.16 XII Taurus 14.48


Me:

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 9.43 Ascendant Gemini 1.39
Moon Sagittarius 24.54 II Gemini 25.22
Mercury Scorpio 0.20 III Cancer 15.48
Venus Scorpio 22.51 IV Leo 7.34
Mars Taurus 7.59 R V Virgo 5.17
Jupiter Aquarius 2.19 VI Libra 14.31
Saturn Cancer 4.34 VII Sagittarius 1.39
Uranus Libra 22.34 VIII Sagittarius 25.22
Neptune Sagittarius 5.16 IX Capricorn 15.48
Pluto Libra 4.31 Midheaven Aquarius 7.34
Lilith Capricorn 5.23 XI Pisces 5.17
Asc node Capricorn 2.13 XII Aries 14.31

< Sun in Pisces

< Moon in Cancer

< Venus in Aries

@Winterwrought

He is incredibly sensitive and moody. He struggles to communicate concisely and there He is thoughtful and generous to many others which I find equally sweet and irritating. He has litany of "friends" of the opposite sex though not in frequent contact with them, I find it a bit unnerving. He is objective and processes issues in a way I have never experienced that is both insightful and dare I say it...logical. His delivery can suck at times but he is usually dead on! I have noticed him working on his tact with me...it's funny. I feel grateful that he wants to be careful and choose his words with me but on the same token I want him to be comfortable and himself.

He is also highly opinionated and can be secretive.

Strange someone once said that when a Pisces loves you, you know it. They were right...he loves me. I love him too, I'm just not sure love is enough for the long haul.

I have Venus in Scorpio which makes me a bit intense, at least intimately. My moon is in Sagittarius which I've been told makes me crave space and I can certainly agree with that. My Sun is in Libra and my rising sign is Gemini. I don't know what that means for this relationship, all I can tell you is that (it seems to me)this guy has been hurt badly before and I don't want to hurt him, be hurt or waste his or my time. He has been discussing marriage as if we already have plans. It's so sweet and so scary. I don't want to mess this up but I am uncertain...I'm not accustomed to my man having a bevy of female friends. I'm also not the kind to pick my man's friends; he certainly cannot choose mine.

I can handle the moodiness and sensitivity(I'm a born diplomat)but I'm not sure about the other women.

I'd ask you more about yourself P-Angel but your reputation precedes you! I CAN see similarities between you and my fish.

I am learning it takes a special personality to manage this kind of fish...but the general consensus of those who successfully match with this profile is that is is a rewarding relationship.

I am crossing my fingers...I hope he's worth it.

Posted by ninalove
@Winterwrought

He has litany of "friends" of the opposite sex though not in frequent contact with them, I find it a bit unnerving.

He is also highly opinionated and can be secretive.

I'm not accustomed to my man having a bevy of female friends. I'm also not the kind to pick my man's friends; he certainly cannot choose mine.

Some interesting observations and similarities with The Pisces I see... Moon in Taurus (thank god!) Venus Aries, Mercury in Aquarius

I can tell you that the secrecy decreases with time. I now get information offered to me that I would never be privy to before. I think it's a trust thing..

He too, has a plethora of female friends... some are casual friends, some treasure the friendship and some hope that one day he'll realize their 'connection' and he'll come running to them. It is, what is it...

I think water signs in general have many friends of the opposite sex. But friendship is friendship and a love interest is something completely different. I'm possessive as a person, so it took me a minute to 'remember' this aspect of a water sign. But hey, I have a ton of guy friends and I could see where a partner would have a similar reaction to my buddies...

I found out the most interesting thing about The Pisces recently. He is usually pretty introverted and a bit reserved in mixed company. But when he is in his element, feeling good, or drunk... he is quite the flirt. He told me this a long time ago but I rarely see it in action.

It was his birth week, which he doesn't usually celebrate but word got out and he had friends coming out of the wood work to send out wishes. The out pouring of warmth was fantastic for him, ( The Pisces in Neptune I think) and he really let go... and boy did he flirt!

In his flirting.. I saw he is amazingly smooth, yet quite boyish. Charming as hell! BUT! he only chats up women who are attached! And I mean, women who are WITH their boyfriends at the time! Even dancing with them!
If one of his friends is on the phone with his girl, he will make comments, send messages and try to get the girls attention.

I don't know if it's a combination of wanting what he can't have, trying to cause drama between partners or getting threatened by the boyfriend... but he sure gets off on it!

Funniest thing I've ever seen....

Posted by ninalove
@Winterwrought

He is incredibly sensitive and moody. He struggles to communicate concisely and there He is thoughtful and generous to many others which I find equally sweet and irritating. He has litany of "friends" of the opposite sex though not in frequent contact with them, I find it a bit unnerving. He is objective and processes issues in a way I have never experienced that is both insightful and dare I say it...logical. His delivery can suck at times but he is usually dead on! I have noticed him working on his tact with me...it's funny. I feel grateful that he wants to be careful and choose his words with me but on the same token I want him to be comfortable and himself.

He is also highly opinionated and can be secretive.

double sun/moon water signs are very emotional, sensitive, and secretive.
they are constantly underwater.

I am a pisces/pisces, and see a lot of comparisons in myself with this fellow fish of yours.
almost all of my friends are male. I have very few female friends, but those that I do have are quite close to me. I feel very defensive around most other women because of my insecurity.
I have only two confidants, the second being my earthbound partner.

from how you describe his actions, he if very respectful of you and wants to be everything you want him to be to make you happy. this is typical of an overly-sensitive pisces, and a pisces in love.

as for secretiveness and opinions-- this is also a common pisces trait; his cancer moon makes this even more pronounced. having secrets and his own opinion is vital for him. it keeps him safe and secure within himself, and it is something that he will always have, whether anyone likes it or not. respect of this is important, because he will not change this.

I have Venus in Scorpio which makes me a bit intense, at least intimately. My moon is in Sagittarius which I've been told makes me crave space and I can certainly agree with that. My Sun is in Libra and my rising sign is Gemini. I don't know what that means for this relationship, all I can tell you is that (it seems to me)this guy has been hurt badly before and I don't want to hurt him, be hurt or waste his or my time.

you are mostly air and fire. this makes it difficult in dealing with any water sign, regardless of their ascendant. most water signs at all confuse you, therefore communication is difficult. you also say that your saggitarian moon requires you to have plenty of your own space, but as a double water sign I'm sure he actually requires even more space than you do!