Please help with a cap guy

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Okay so I like a Cap guy at my workplace(he has switched jobs now) & he sort of knows i like him. Instead of hanging there like a pendulum, i took the initiative & added each other on social media a month back, i even started conversation there, he replied and asked "whatsup" but left me hanging there once i replied. So i left him alone thinking he is not interested.

I saw him the other day at office and we literally had some intense eye contact where i was acting like i don't know what to do & he kept on smiling while looking at me. Like he was not smiling at me otherwise i would have smiled back. He was just smiling while looking at me (you know what I am saying) 🤔

Few days later, he sent me a link to a song on social media that he has performed. I complimented, he said thank yousmile

And that's it.

I literally sort of want to forget him. I like his posts, he checks my stories. Nothing is REALLY happening between the two of us.

Should i just ignore him totally or do something else? I don't want to start conversations with him as i don't want to be left hanging again.

I am just confused! Help me with your precious advice 😁
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Why are you confused exactly? You shouldn't be. You said "he SORT OF knows". What does that mean? That's actually the confusing part. Do you want him to assume that you like him because you added him on social media? 🙁🤦 That means little to nothing.

As an adult, being DIRECT is often times, necessary. If you're not CRYSTAL CLEAR, how can he be? Know what I mean?
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Posted by sweetpea2977

Why are you confused exactly? You shouldn't be. You said "he SORT OF knows". What does that mean? That's actually the confusing part. Do you want him to assume that you like him because you added him on social media? 🙁🤦 That means little to nothing.

As an adult, being DIRECT is often times, necessary. If you're not CRYSTAL CLEAR, how can he be? Know what I mean?


I said he sort of knows because one of my colleagues approached him one fine day & told him "somebody on the floor likes you", and he has seen me checking him out everytime he is around. And to top it, i added him on social media where i shouldn't even be knowing his name. So i believe that he knows i like him.
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Why are you confused exactly? You shouldn't be. You said "he SORT OF knows". What does that mean? That's actually the confusing part. Do you want him to assume that you like him because you added him on social media? 🙁🤦 That means little to nothing.

As an adult, being DIRECT is often times, necessary. If you're not CRYSTAL CLEAR, how can he be? Know what I mean?

I said he sort of knows because one of my colleagues approached him one fine day & told him "somebody on the floor likes you", and he has seen me checking him out everytime he is around. And to top it, i added him on social media where i shouldn't even be knowing his name. So i believe that he knows i like him.
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If you don't directly tell him yourself, then an assumption is JUST THAT. In telling him, you ACTUALLY place the ball in his court.
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PoloChat
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Posted by sweetpea2977

Why are you confused exactly? You shouldn't be. You said "he SORT OF knows". What does that mean? That's actually the confusing part. Do you want him to assume that you like him because you added him on social media? 🙁🤦 That means little to nothing.

As an adult, being DIRECT is often times, necessary. If you're not CRYSTAL CLEAR, how can he be? Know what I mean?

I said he sort of knows because one of my colleagues approached him one fine day & told him "somebody on the floor likes you", and he has seen me checking him out everytime he is around. And to top it, i added him on social media where i shouldn't even be knowing his name. So i believe that he knows i like him.

If you don't directly tell him yourself, then an assumption is JUST THAT. In telling him, you ACTUALLY place the ball in his court.
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He has not shown any interest, telling him about my feelings will hurt me more