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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?


She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.
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Gem. You know, I know your thing is provoking people and sh.i.t and I love you regardless cause you have a good heart deep down and are entertaining. Even though we've had our disagreements.

But this is really a serious post.

I'm not kidding nor am I attention seeking and yes he is potentially dangerous because he has shit on me.

He hasn't used that yet but I'm sure he's capable of doing so.

What I'm looking for Is a valid way to get rid of him outside of what I've already done. Which is block etc.

Any ideas please ?
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

He is.

He was physically/mentally abusive. We had an extremely toxic sexual and emotional relationship.

It was obsessive to the max. He was an a-hole...

Then he cleaned up his act at the last minute but relapsed and turned back into a douche.

Then I left him for good.

I do feel secured with my SO.

My new SO is actually my first love. Do you think I should tell him ?

So far I've kept it from him.

I know he's seen texts but he hasn't said anything other than "I think you should block him." Ages ago.

Do you think I should tell him about the gravity of the situation? I dont want it to turn ugly. Or ugliER. I don't want my ex to have the pleasure of knowing that he's getting into my bfs head when he's irrelevant in my life.
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.

Gem. You know, I know your thing is provoking people and sh.i.t and I love you regardless cause you have a good heart deep down and are entertaining. Even though we've had our disagreements.

But this is really a serious post.

I'm not kidding nor am I attention seeking and yes he is potentially dangerous because he has shit on me.

He hasn't used that yet but I'm sure he's capable of doing so.

What I'm looking for Is a valid way to get rid of him outside of what I've already done. Which is block etc.

Any ideas please ?
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What is that exactly bothering you about him? Texts? Calls? Blocked you did...

Is he appearing in front of you in person? Restraining order!

If he really IS dangerous - police should be notified.

What advise are you looking for based on his astrological placements?

Is there really a book on how to deal with said sign stalking? NO!

So how can I help you? 🤔
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.

Gem. You know, I know your thing is provoking people and sh.i.t and I love you regardless cause you have a good heart deep down and are entertaining. Even though we've had our disagreements.

But this is really a serious post.

I'm not kidding nor am I attention seeking and yes he is potentially dangerous because he has shit on me.

He hasn't used that yet but I'm sure he's capable of doing so.

What I'm looking for Is a valid way to get rid of him outside of what I've already done. Which is block etc.

Any ideas please ?

What is that exactly bothering you about him? Texts? Calls? Blocked you did...

Is he appearing in front of you in person? Restraining order!

If he really IS dangerous - police should be notified.

What advise are you looking for based on his astrological placements?

Is there really a book on how to deal with said sign stalking? NO!

So how can I help you? 🤔
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Bon.

Nevermind Gemitati.

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Okay. I'll go back to the police.

They know of him anyway. I went to the police the last time so...

But I'm scared it will antagonize him.

We'll see maybe I should talk to my bf about it in more detail first.
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?

How about hanging up and NOT listening to his restaurant meeting suggestions?
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Wut ? He doesn't call me. I didn't say he calls me.

He tries but no. These are TEXTS from various random numbers
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?


1.Change your number.

2.Tell people.

3. Get the police involved.

Tell him clearly : stop contacting me, I don't want to hear from you.

I've been stalked before online and offline, don't allow him to control your life. Don't take this lightly. Things can get ugly, there's no saying what someone with a sick mind could do.
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there's a scorpio sun/pisces moon that freaks me out too. knew one who acted the same way with me. blocked him everywhere yet he still pops up somewhere. i suggest you just keep blocking. hope he doesn't know your address.

Something about that sign/combination huh...weird.



I have a business at my home address so yes he knows it.

And I'm going back to the police. I'll tell my bf first though and show him ALL the texts.
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?

How about hanging up and NOT listening to his restaurant meeting suggestions?

Wut ? He doesn't call me. I didn't say he calls me.

He tries but no. These are TEXTS from various random numbers
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Does he sign those texts with his name? He seem irritating you and having a ball because he knows you are freaking out!

And telling your bf...yeah...but what is HE going to do?

Maybe tell your whole family and someone actually WILL advise you because unlike dxpers - your family KNOWS you and him.
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He shouldn't be able to call or text you either with that restraining order.

Thank you. No that's true. Thank goodness ya'll pushed me to go to the police back when I was with him. Or he wouldn't have a record.

I'll tell my bf tonight and we'll go to the police tomorrow.

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Thank you so much
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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?


Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?

How about hanging up and NOT listening to his restaurant meeting suggestions?

Wut ? He doesn't call me. I didn't say he calls me.

He tries but no. These are TEXTS from various random numbers

Does he sign those texts with his name? He seem irritating you and having a ball because he knows you are freaking out!

And telling your bf...yeah...but what is HE going to do?

Maybe tell your whole family and someone actually WILL advise you because unlike dxpers - your family KNOWS you and him.
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My family doesn't know the REAL him.

They think he's nice.

I never told them about the other stuff. Only my cousin who is in a different country knows how he REALLY is and that's only because he stumbled across our WhatsApp convo one day when I asked him to use my phone to text my mum about something.

My mum never liked my ex though but she doesn't like him because she loves my current bf who who knows very well since we were childhood sweethearts and our families know each other.
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?

1.Change your number.

2.Tell people.

3. Get the police involved.

Tell him clearly : stop contacting me, I don't want to hear from you.

I've been stalked before online and offline, don't allow him to control your life. Don't take this lightly. Things can get ugly, there's no saying what someone with a sick mind could do.
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I've told him that. I've been answering the same thing for 8 months now and today I hadn't received a message in over 2 weeks and I freaked out.



You're right. Police.

That's the only option it seems.
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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?

Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.
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I'm not too sure about that...
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I blocked his main numbers a while ago but he keeps popping up with new numbers from thin air.

Talking about meeting up at a restaurant etc etc. I keep saying no and telling him to leave me alone.



I have a feeling this isn't going to end well.

What can I do ?

Please ?

How about hanging up and NOT listening to his restaurant meeting suggestions?

Wut ? He doesn't call me. I didn't say he calls me.

He tries but no. These are TEXTS from various random numbers

Does he sign those texts with his name? He seem irritating you and having a ball because he knows you are freaking out!

And telling your bf...yeah...but what is HE going to do?

Maybe tell your whole family and someone actually WILL advise you because unlike dxpers - your family KNOWS you and him.

My family doesn't know the REAL him.

They think he's nice.

I never told them about the other stuff. Only my cousin who is in a different country knows how he REALLY is and that's only because he stumbled across our WhatsApp convo one day when I asked him to use my phone to text my mum about something.

My mum never liked my ex though but she doesn't like him because she loves my current bf who who knows very well since we were childhood sweethearts and our families know each other.
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It’s sounds like bunch of teenage bullshit.
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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?

Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.

I'm not too sure about that...
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Why? Don't you think your man can handle him or will he get handled?
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.

Gem. You know, I know your thing is provoking people and sh.i.t and I love you regardless cause you have a good heart deep down and are entertaining. Even though we've had our disagreements.

But this is really a serious post.

I'm not kidding nor am I attention seeking and yes he is potentially dangerous because he has shit on me.

He hasn't used that yet but I'm sure he's capable of doing so.

What I'm looking for Is a valid way to get rid of him outside of what I've already done. Which is block etc.

Any ideas please ?
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Lala, you loved him so much and were like a puppy with him..... its not him to need to let go, but you...

I can understand, how you wish it was like he wants you.... after all you went thru with him.... but its not

I would be the same thou.... and you with a scorp moon of yours would be 100x like this

forget him, its you who need to let him go...

imho
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He sounds like he has somewhat of a dangerous personality. Do you feel safe? Do you feel secured even with your new significant other?

She is full of a hot air...

Everybody knows how to stop unwanted attention shit coming.

Posts like this is a crap ‘look at me! Someone wants me so badly it’s dangerous...!’

Trust me. She is safe...to the point that she is bored and has been making up shit to get attention.

Gem. You know, I know your thing is provoking people and sh.i.t and I love you regardless cause you have a good heart deep down and are entertaining. Even though we've had our disagreements.

But this is really a serious post.

I'm not kidding nor am I attention seeking and yes he is potentially dangerous because he has shit on me.

He hasn't used that yet but I'm sure he's capable of doing so.

What I'm looking for Is a valid way to get rid of him outside of what I've already done. Which is block etc.

Any ideas please ?

Lala, you loved him so much and were like a puppy with him..... its not him to need to let go, but you...

I can understand, how you wish it was like he wants you.... after all you went thru with him.... but its not

I would be the same thou.... and you with a scorp moon of yours would be 100x like this

forget him, its you who need to let him go...

imho
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Huh ?

No no. Let's get this right. I'm 1000000% over him. I didn't even love him. Abusive relationships are not about love. That wasn't love. It was lack of self love and my life had become him. Everything I did turned around pleasing him.

I'm very happy with my bf.

He's almost perfect and he's perfect for me. I'm head over heels for him.

I cbf about my ex I just wish he'd leave me th f alone and stop freaking me out with his unstable behaviour. I wouldn't have blocked him if that hadn't been the case.



Anyway I spoke to my bf and were going to the police later.
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I’m sorry you’re going through this and that you’re getting gaslighted here.

That Scorpio dude gave you good advice. Take care. ❤️


Thank you so much for the support. I couldn't wait until ton so I called my bf and he came straight back home and I showed him the texts and told him everything. I'm working from home today so he's taken the rest of the afternoon off and were going to the police together.

He said he wants to kill him and insult him but he said contacting him could fuel his sense of importance and make it worse. So we're leaving in a few hours.

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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?

Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.

I'm not too sure about that...

Why? Don't you think your man can handle him or will he get handled?
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Just spoke to him.

He had the same view as me. He said he wanted to kill him and tell him a few words but he said that the guy is so f'd up that doing that will probably give him more self importance. So I'm finishing work and we'll go to the popo later. He's taken the rest of the day off so he's chilling here with me until we leave. 😊



Ugh it's raining
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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?

Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.

I'm not too sure about that...

Why? Don't you think your man can handle him or will he get handled?

Just spoke to him.

He had the same view as me. He said he wanted to kill him and tell him a few words but he said that the guy is so f'd up that doing that will probably give him more self importance. So I'm finishing work and we'll go to the popo later. He's taken the rest of the day off so he's chilling here with me until we leave. 😊



Ugh it's raining
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I don't see how an ass whooping gives a person self importance; but I guess your guy knows what's best for you.
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Ok so he's blocked everywhere but still is trying to get me to accept to see him on other numbers etc. He doesn't seem to understand that I'm now with someone else and that I've moved on.

The way he speaks is as though I'm still his and that this is only a phase or something.

How can I get rid of him permanently out of my life ?

Simple. Just tell your new man to handle him. He should get the message through and your ex will leave you alone.

I'm not too sure about that...

Why? Don't you think your man can handle him or will he get handled?

Just spoke to him.

He had the same view as me. He said he wanted to kill him and tell him a few words but he said that the guy is so f'd up that doing that will probably give him more self importance. So I'm finishing work and we'll go to the popo later. He's taken the rest of the day off so he's chilling here with me until we leave. 😊



Ugh it's raining

I don't see how an ass whooping gives a person self importance; but I guess your guy knows what's best for you.
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We went to the police. They said we did the right thing. It's sorted now.

They advised me to use my other phone.

😊

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Hi there!

I regret your situation ..

I am interested in knowing more about your ex boyfriend's natal chart.

I am also a Scorpio with a moon in Pisces, although I am obsessive with people, I do not prove it .. I am also the type of person who prefers not to get into the life of my ex-girlfriends or stalkear their social networks for fear of finding something I do not like .. then I avoid all these kinds of situations ..

Can you provide more information about your ex partner's natal chart?