I am a scorpio woman who was dating a aquarius man on and off for 4 years. I never read about astrology before until he finally said he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. I was too controlling, too demanding, too emotional or him- everything that an aqua hates. I have no idea how our relationship lasted this long. I know he had commitment issues and that always scared me and threw me off thats why i was controlling and demanding. when we were officially boyfriend and girlfriend he randomly told me that we should get married once we are older and settled with our lives and careers. that was about 2 years. we officially broke up 1.5 years ago but we still kept in contact, acted like we were together without the label. that whole time that we were broken up but acted as we were together, i was so focused on getting back with him-- i always talked about what we are, was always paranoid, always controlling, etc. he would always tell me not to worry because he's still there but he just doesn't want to be in a relationship. i never understood what he was saying and i never listened so i never gave him his space, always demanded for his time and attention until one day he was over it i guess. he told me he doesn't wanna be with me anymore-- i was shattered and heart broken... but he said, "we can still be friends. i want to be there for you- i know how things are with your situation (i was feeling lost and i was so needy of his time. i cried rivers to him because i was sad with how my life was) we just can't be together. i think we can still have a good friendship without any exceptions and with respect." now my real question is should i accept his friendship or just move on because he's already over me? i do want to make it work with him and this time I'm more knowledgeable of his needs.. and i learned that aquarius men will want to be friends first and get to know you before they know that want to be with you. we never had a good foundation for our friendship. so I'm thinking is this my second chance to build friendship first or he's really done with me and doesn't see me to be "the one"
