I'm a Capricorn . It's really a complicated story . It started 5 years ago . We were class mates in a Course . She is adorable (Scorpio) , 6 Years older than me " But I've no problem " . I fall in love with her at the first glance . Then We became friends with flirting from time to time . I thought she were married so I was avoiding any eye contact with her respecting that fact and I hate cheating . But I knew that she is divorced. All this 5 years I was struggling with my emotions to avoid passing the red thin line out of the friend zone statues because my marital statues is complicated ( Separation , Kids Custody & other stuff) that's why I'm not ready for marriage for a while and I thought it might be selfish to put her on hold while there are others could offer her that marriage and a new life . Last Feb while we were talking I couldn't resist and I told her I love you and I was holding my self because of these reasons . She told me that she has been waiting for this moment during the past 5 years .She fells like she is on the top of the world and all my worries are nothing . She only needs me and marriage is nothing for her . All of a sudden she started a fight out of nothing after six weeks in heaven . She was telling me about a guy who is flirting with her an offering her marriage and she was asking what she would tell him . I smiled and I told her just till him he isn't the man I know it's difficult for you because you couldn't tell him that you are in love with other one as our relationship isn't in public yet . Then the Hell gates were open , She told me that this is a bog insult to her and she have to think again about the whole issue since I'm not giving her any respect !
After 2 weeks chasing her trying to apologize about what I really don't know . But Saying just I'm sorry to save the relationship . She started taking to me again telling me that she is just feeling worried about the future and I may l dump her . And play emotional manipulations , mind games & giving mixed signals .
I live in Canada , she back home and she is trying to immigrate . To let her feel secured I told her even if you couldn't come here I will spend the rest of life with you where you are just after I get my citizenship.
But It wasn't enough 2 days ago after I confronted her with her mixed signals she told me she need a clear promise that when my complications are done I would marry her . And I gave her my word .
But still all of these aren't enough for her . She still playing mind games with me . Using emotional & sexual blackmail . Or sometimes only for abusing .
I'm really in a mess . I'm not sure what is in her mind .. She loves me , She is holding a grudge for friend-zoning her so she it's all about talking revenge and isn't done yet or she is just playing with me enjoying abusing the person who abused her before even he didn't mean it that way and she is in love with another one.
I need you advice please .
Thanks in advance
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I'm a Capricorn . It's really a complicated story . It started 5 years ago . We were class mates in a Course . She is adorable (Scorpio) , 6 Years older than me " But I've no problem " . I fall in love with her at the first glance . Then We became friends with flirting from time to time . I thought she were married so I was avoiding any eye contact with her respecting that fact and I hate cheating . But I knew that she is divorced. All this 5 years I was struggling with my emotions to avoid passing the red thin line out of the friend zone statues because my marital statues is complicated ( Separation , Kids Custody & other stuff) that's why I'm not ready for marriage for a while and I thought it might be selfish to put her on hold while there are others could offer her that marriage and a new life . Last Feb while we were talking I couldn't resist and I told her I love you and I was holding my self because of these reasons . She told me that she has been waiting for this moment during the past 5 years .She fells like she is on the top of the world and all my worries are nothing . She only needs me and marriage is nothing for her . All of a sudden she started a fight out of nothing after six weeks in heaven . She was telling me about a guy who is flirting with her an offering her marriage and she was asking what she would tell him . I smiled and I told her just till him he isn't the man I know it's difficult for you because you couldn't tell him that you are in love with other one as our relationship isn't in public yet . Then the Hell gates were open , She told me that this is a bog insult to her and she have to think again about the whole issue since I'm not giving her any respect !
After 2 weeks chasing her trying to apologize about what I really don't know . But Saying just I'm sorry to save the relationship . She started taking to me again telling me that she is just feeling worried about the future and I may l dump her . And play emotional manipulations , mind games & giving mixed signals .
I live in Canada , she back home and she is trying to immigrate . To let her feel secured I told her even if you couldn't come here I will spend the rest of life with you where you are just after I get my citizenship.
But It wasn't enough 2 days ago after I confronted her with her mixed signals she told me she need a clear promise that when my complications are done I would marry her . And I gave her my word .
But still all of these aren't enough for her . She still playing mind games with me . Using emotional & sexual blackmail . Or sometimes only for abusing .
I'm really in a mess . I'm not sure what is in her mind .. She loves me , She is holding a grudge for friend-zoning her so she it's all about talking revenge and isn't done yet or she is just playing with me enjoying abusing the person who abused her before even he didn't mean it that way and she is in love with another one.
I need you advice please .
Thanks in advance