Should I or should I not send letters?

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I use to write letters to my Pisces ex while we still dating but never gave them to him. So as I was cleaning my room I came across these letters I wrote about my frustrations in the relationship, or how happy I was at the time. Basically I would write about how I felt at that specific moment as a form of a letter not a diary. I find writing letters to be more communicative/ expressive than instant texting and I always thought it would have been cool if we wrote to each(like in that "Dear John" movie).
I am not a bitter ex, I hate feeling bitter as that may hinder my future relationship/s. I past that I hate my ex stage,karma and revenge are just useless for my moving forward.

My question:

1. Should I post these letters to my ex?
2.Should I just burn them?
3. Should I keep them as a reminder of how stupitely in love I was with a Pisces man?
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Posted by VirgowScorpiMoon
I've kept letters that were sent to me. I kept them away for a few years. When I read them now I don't feel emotional but proud that I could love someone that much. Nowadays it's an interesting read. I plan to keep them until I'm very old (like a grandma) and read it. I think will be a good memory.
Ja as I was reading them it reminded me how much I can love , it made me feel like I can still love someone else the same way or even more.
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Posted by Arielle83
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Is this the one with the gf?

Who u fucked and bragged about how he wants u over her and how you don't have to do anything?


YEAH SEND THEM!!!
I can use u as my memory box, you seem to remember every word I say on dx.
Well you are entertaining!!

I hope you wear a hat with bells on it and wear a whistle around your neck!!
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I do wear a hat with bells on it and wear a whistle around my neck. How did you know? You are a genius!
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Posted by Arielle83
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Is this the one with the gf?

Who u fucked and bragged about how he wants u over her and how you don't have to do anything?


YEAH SEND THEM!!!
I can use u as my memory box, you seem to remember every word I say on dx.
Well you are entertaining!!

I hope you wear a hat with bells on it and wear a whistle around your neck!!
I do wear a hat with bells on it and wear a whistle around my neck. How did you know? You are a genius!
So what's he gonna say if u send it?
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Are'nt you the genius here?you tell me! !
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I don't know him.

What are u going to do with ur letters?

U tell me!
And then she repeats a question that she already gave an answer to. Ay! Intelligent people these todays!
Yeah, I can think for myself!

The question is, can you?

Why are you so snotty for someone who needs strangers to help them make decisions?

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Yes like I said before, that you were intelligent. I am already aware that you can think for yourself there is no need to emphasize your smartness.
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Posted by rainbow33
if you think he's cool with getting the letter.. knowing you dont have any intention..then you can post it..
I have same situation here. Letters i wrote for him, didnt get to pass him. planning to pass it to him soon...

If not you can just keep it? memories 🙂
Wow! M glad there is someone out there going through the same thing. Eish! m just scared hey, a part of me wants to show him how I really felt, not that I want him back or anything, but just to let him know how much I loved him and how frustrated I wud get. I wish I knew how he would receive it, it's a tough situation and a very confusing one.
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Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
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Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
It might be one of those situations where u can learn from experience after you go ahead with a decision. Just be mentally/emotionally prepared.
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yea, thanks you! 🙂
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Posted by VirgowScorpiMoon
Posted by rainbow33
Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
It might be one of those situations where u can learn from experience after you go ahead with a decision. Just be mentally/emotionally prepared.
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true! one really needs to be mentally prepared for any reaction! the worst would be if he laughs at me , or never responds at all.
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Posted by rainbow33
Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
Exactly how I feel. please let me know how it went after you sent your letters? deal?

who knows it can turn into an interesting conversation of feelings between two people who have made peace with the fact that they can't be together anymore.
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Posted by rainbow33
Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
as for being in contact with him, the last time I spoke to him was on his birthday when I sent him a HBD message , and he responded instantly to say thanks and that was it.
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Why? Its over, unless you want him back...even then I wouldnt do it.
Pride is sometimes a beautiful thing.
Love is stronger than pride. And no, I don't want him back , I'm really over him this time.
You dont want him back but you're willing to risk - your words - this guy laughing in your face ...because?
Love is stronger than pride ..but you don't love this guy, you're over him...pride in this case m'dear is much needed.
Burn them.

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Great! Thanks for the advice!
Well, its not really advice. It's more like me saying "keep doing you" because we all know that you're going to keep on being a stupid ho no matter what. So go on honey, live your dreams.


I guess you've figured out this is probably all you're good for.



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Thanks honey you the best!
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Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
as for being in contact with him, the last time I spoke to him was on his birthday when I sent him a HBD message , and he responded instantly to say thanks and that was it.
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seem like he's ok with you. can try to meet up. anw, mine are a bit complicated. Idk if i should reply his text now. so idk when i will pass it to him. >_< you think i should reply his text? lol! dilemma😢
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Posted by rainbow33
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Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
as for being in contact with him, the last time I spoke to him was on his birthday when I sent him a HBD message , and he responded instantly to say thanks and that was it.
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seem like he's ok with you. can try to meet up. anw, mine are a bit complicated. Idk if i should reply his text now. so idk when i will pass it to him. >_

Yes wud say respond
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Are you guys still in contact? If not you can try to pass him in person and see his reaction?
If not you can post it to him and see if he contact you or not?
From there maybe you will know how he thinks?

Haha, I know how you feel. M thinking if I should write a letter bout how I feel & pass it to him.. just want to let him know too..
But don't want to cause any awkward situation too... :/
as for being in contact with him, the last time I spoke to him was on his birthday when I sent him a HBD message , and he responded instantly to say thanks and that was it.
seem like he's ok with you. can try to meet up. anw, mine are a bit complicated. Idk if i should reply his text now. so idk when i will pass it to him. >_

Yes wud say respond
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alright, will update you again. anw, yea, love is definitely more impt then pride 🙂 so what if you have your pride but losing someone you love? just saying. haha. 😉