Strange situation with a virgo

So my starsign is cancer, I fell for a virgo. It was good at first and I could take the critical views of this girl and her nit picking Im one of those who lets it go over the top of my head I could see she was only trying to help.
The problem was at times she could be very smothering, very jealous and argumentative to the point it was arguments every few days over ridiculous things an example being if I missed a phone call a whole argument would errupt. For the last 3 or so months its just been arguments her saying she wanted to move on let go and then a couple of days later running back. I do truly love her, a few times Ive said I cant take these petty arguments or you saying I dont care. So for the last 3 months its only gotten worse.
So I called it quits 2 days ago. I know there is no nice way to do this I explained my reasons and when she questioned stuff I answered I wasnt shut off, I said we both clash and things are getting worse and I have tried and tried but its like she didnt take my opinions seriously. Her answer to arguing alot was well no relationships plain sailing, arguing every couple of days isnt healthy either. She has tried contacting me first she'll send a nice message then about 10 mins later I get a load of abuse. Yes I am still very much in love with her and I know it cant go on. My question is do you think she will ever realise that she needed to make effort? I would get back with her if she realised what her constant arguments were doing to the relationship. I couldnt go on anymore with it and I am never usually one to give up when im in love but I do truly believe that ive done the right thing. Im not in contact with her at the moment I think its too early and she needs to realise its not

Sorry accidently pressed the enter button on phone. I need her to realise its not all on me she has played a part too which she is in denial about saying I dont love her like she loves me.

This may all seem confusing, I guess my question is will she realise and want to talk sensibly or am I better off just moving on?

Thanks in advance guys 🙂

Posted by SnapSnap8
I said we both clash

This is the bottom line here. Move on.

Don't respond for a about a month, if she gets more crazy then maybe its time to move on but if she stops contacting you maybe you can start again after the emotions have cooled down. Time will show alot. If she is too emotional now lets see if she calms down. Don't respond just wait, if you love her just wait. Some times a break is good for people see there mistakes.

Deep down I do hope so, I am gonna leave her to cool down and think about what I was trying to get across to her.