Sun Square Mars in Synastry

Anyone had a successful relationship of any kind with a Sun Square Mars aspect between two charts or is it just doomed to explode?

If you've been a successful part of this square, how did you navigate this minefield?

I had it with 2 saggis men. Im currently dating one. With the prior sag, we just had the tendency to cut each others sentences off. Now the sex part, whoa. Very demeaning sex. He would spit on me during missionary. He also had to fight the urge to not slap Me repeatedly during sex.

"very demeaning sex. He would spit on me during missionary. He also had to fight the urge to not slap Me repeatedly during sex"

:-O Well damn! Being the same sun sign didn't mitigate that hostility I see.

I had this in a chart with one of my ex's. We argued every day without fail. Never argued with anyone that frequently. He seemed fine with that and tried to convince me that we were fine, but I couldn't continue the relationship that way. It would have taken an extreme amount of tolerance from me to continue seeing him.

I had a long term relationship and my Sun squared his Mars (I have a Scorp sun, he has an Aquarius Mars) and there wasn't anything explosive at all. We were both nice to each other and after a bit of time to grieve and move on after the relationship ended (not for any horrible reasons, we were just better as friends), we started being friends again and we still are. I met that person close to 20 years ago, so that's lots of time to have something explosive happen if that was going to be a given.