Synastry - very powerful feelings of love and hatred. What brings this?

Like sometimes you feel like you want to violently hurt them and then on the other, you want to die for them. Like that Love The Way You Lie Rihana featuring Eminem song. It's not that lovey dovey cute romance movie stuff, it's that dark passionate intense stuff that is filled with lust but violence all the same. These people bring out powerful and strong emotions in you that you cannot control.

They can enrage you to the point you have never been and bring out your worst side like none other but at the same time, you are attracted to each other. They can make you hate them to the point where you hate their entire zodiac sign because of them or their entire nationality or race or something.

What the heck man, what in the fuggin synastry causes this sh1t?

can be pluto aspects