The Position Of VENUS In HIS Chart

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Traditionally, astrologers have interpreted the position and condition of Venus in the natal chart differently depending on the gender of the native. The reason for treating Venus in men's and women's chart differently is based on the idea that men may tend to "disown" the qualities of Venus in his own chart. Since the energies of Venus have to go somewhere, when a man doesn't "own", or identify with, his Venus, the energies would be projected onto the women he meets and relates with. Similarly, women are thought to more easily relate to and "own" Venus qualities. The concept of projection is an interesting and valid one. Men and women tend to take on the role of Venus in their relationships in approximately equal measure.

However, the position of Venus by sign in a man's chart does tend to offer some clues as to what he will find attractive in a woman. This is because Venus reveals what we love, find pleasing, and what turns us on to some degree. (Mars helps to round out the picture in terms of sexual attraction and style ).


If a man's Venus is in Aries, he is often attracted to a tomboyish woman, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, forthright, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy women are not usually the most attractive women to these men, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types.

If a man's Venus is in Taurus, he is often attracted to women with hourglass figures, who come across as natural and calm, and rather feminine. More traditional feminine types are often preferred, as opposed to aggressive or in-your-face personas. Sensual but simple auras are most attractive to these men. Sweetness, and a simple voluptuousness in a woman is ideal.

If a man's Venus is in Gemini, intelligence or liveliness are often more important than drop-dead good looks. An athletic or tomboyish look, sometimes on the slim side, is often preferred.
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If a man's Venus is in Cancer, he may prefer women who come across as sweet, soft, and warm. He is not as inclined to go for women who are model-thin, tomboy-ish, or for the high-profile career type. He often is attracted to more traditionally feminine looks, simply dressed (not gaudy or flashy). Understated but feminine summer dresses, accentuated breasts (natural, not "enhanced"), an aura of innocence or neediness, and the promise of devotedness are usually turn-ons. Venus in Cancer men often go out of their way to avoid feeling rejected, and this is mirrored in their attraction to women who are not too aggressive, loud, or overly confident.

If a man's Venus is in Leo, he may be attracted to women who are proud, outgoing, and perhaps even gaudy. Aloofness or a dignified, confident aura is usually appealing to these men. These men are more inclined to enjoy women who wear a good deal of makeup and jewelry. Flashiness is often appealing, although some will prefer a slightly more understated look. The bottom line, however, is usually a rather bold, confident manner.

If a man's Venus is in Virgo, an appealing woman to him is usually an understated, rather simple appearance without too much glamour or ostentatiousness. Healthy, natural, and clean are most appealing physical qualities, and a certain amount of intelligence as well as a modest, sensible approach to life.

If a man's Venus is in Libra, he is most attracted to femininity expressed as understated charm, good manners, and a simple but beautiful appearance. Coarseness or rudeness is often a turn-off.
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If a man's Venus is in Sagittarius, an energetic, happy aura in a woman is often most appealing. Generally these men are attracted to a clean, robust, athletic look, generally slim but not necessarily well-groomed. A tousled, casual appearance is just fine with these men.

If a man's Venus is in Capricorn, he often finds a woman who has an aura of competence about her very appealing. More classic looks, as well as a career-oriented look are most appealing. Sometimes, older women are especially appealing to these men.

If a man's Venus is in Aquarius, he can be most impressed by women who are somewhat unconventional or kooky in their choice of clothes and overall style . He wants an interesting woman. She can certainly be beautiful, but boring? Hardly.

If a man's Venus is in Pisces, he is often impressed with a feminine aura of softness, sweetness, and neediness to a certain degree. She need not be robust or aggressive. Lacking in confidence is just fine, and so is a touch of helplessness.

A man's Moon sign certainly factors into the "equation". While Venus offers clues as to what type of women and situations attract a man on a romantic level, the Moon reveals what qualities makes a man feel comfortable and warm. Sometimes we see men with very different Venus and Moon signs who have distinctly different "types" of women when it comes to pure attraction and those he would consider as long-term or relationship material. For example, a man with Venus in Aries and Moon in Taurus might be attracted to forthright, independent women in general, but as far as "selecting" a woman for a long-term partnership goes, he might choose a more demure woman with steady affections and a softer, more traditionally "feminine" personality and/or appearance.
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I found this until Dreamer02 comes back:

Venus in Scorpio men prefer women who are seductive and mysterious. He is attracted to women who are dynamic and powerful, rather than passive or weak-willed. The man who has Venus in Scorpio finds it difficult to respect a woman who lacks willpower and wants a woman who has a strong, forceful personality.

Sexuality is extremely important to this man and he is likely to be attracted to a woman who exudes an animal magnetism or who has an overtly sexual appearance. A woman who refuses to be controlled or possessed by the Venus in Scorpio male is also particularly appealing.
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Posted by TheLadySagittarius
I found this until Dreamer02 comes back:

Venus in Scorpio men prefer women who are seductive and mysterious. He is attracted to women who are dynamic and powerful, rather than passive or weak-willed. The man who has Venus in Scorpio finds it difficult to respect a woman who lacks willpower and wants a woman who has a strong, forceful personality.

Sexuality is extremely important to this man and he is likely to be attracted to a woman who exudes an animal magnetism or who has an overtly sexual appearance. A woman who refuses to be controlled or possessed by the Venus in Scorpio male is also particularly appealing.




I find librarians very mysterious. This is why I love them. Like i always expect to see one of them dancing in a strip club at night or something.

voluptousness is certainly my weakness and that fits the overtly sexual appearance thing.
I dont want to possess or control anyone though.




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If a man's Venus is in Aries, he is often attracted to a tomboyish woman, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, forthright, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy women are not usually the most attractive women to these men, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types.


If a man's Venus is in Cancer, he may prefer women who come across as sweet, soft, and warm. He is not as inclined to go for women who are model-thin, tomboy-ish, or for the high-profile career type. He often is attracted to more traditionally feminine looks, simply dressed (not gaudy or flashy). Understated but feminine summer dresses, accentuated breasts (natural, not "enhanced"), an aura of innocence or neediness, and the promise of devotedness are usually turn-ons. Venus in Cancer men often go out of their way to avoid feeling rejected, and this is mirrored in their attraction to women who are not too aggressive, loud, or overly confident.


That's interesting! I went out with two Cancer Venuses back to back, and it was very intimate, private and relaxed. I was very protective of them and their emotions, and kept almost everything between us. It felt *cozy*, we could spend weekends sitting in my room not doing much and it was mostly cool.

Now, I'm with a Venus Aries and it's....very different. lol.


Makes you wonder of they bring that out of us.
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This is the Scorpio part (it's from Cafeastrology, http://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html )

"If a man's Venus is in Scorpio, the femme fatale is just fine for him. He is especially attracted to women who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious, and who have a magnetic and powerful aura."

Why have I NEVER met any Venus in Scorpio guys? Give me...
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I cann agree 20% with>>> If a man's Venus is in Virgo, an appealing woman to him is usually an understated, rather simple appearance without too much glamour or ostentatiousness. Healthy, natural, and clean are most appealing physical qualities, and a certain amount of intelligence as well as a modest, sensible approach to life.



I agree 80% with>>>>
If a man's Venus is in Libra, he is most attracted to femininity expressed as understated charm, good manners, and a simple but beautiful appearance. Coarseness or rudeness is often a turn-off.

So does asc factor in? Venus in virgo(5.17) with asc(23.38) libra.

I'm still trying to understand the # aspect. Perhaps the higher the # the more you feel towards that trait?

It seems as far as romantic relationships go, the only time I really feel the traits of my scorpio moon (6.47)is when I truly like someone. Other than that I take a moving forward "love me or hate me attitude" my asc leo moon(25.08). And that's like 90% of the time so.

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This is the Scorpio part (it's from Cafeastrology, http://cafeastrology.com/articles/idealwomanforaman.html )

"If a man's Venus is in Scorpio, the femme fatale is just fine for him. He is especially attracted to women who ooze sensuality, who are perhaps a little dark and mysterious, and who have a magnetic and powerful aura."

Why have I NEVER met any Venus in Scorpio guys? Give me...




Cause maybe you couldnt handle one?

LOL.

Just kidding.

Lets go on a date and see what you think.
lol.
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Cause maybe you couldnt handle one?

LOL.

Just kidding.

Lets go on a date and see what you think.
lol.



I never tried, so I wouldn't know.
It's just weird that I've never in my entire life known any Venus in Scorpio guys.

Don't know why I am so into them, since I haven't met any.

Your venus is in Scorpio?
Well hello sir! 😄
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Hahaha. You are cute.

But you dont really want a V in S guy.
We are babies, we expect you to Love us forever and other assorted non-sense.
Then when you ready to dump us, we dont even know how to get over you as fast as you have gotten over us.
We love all heavy and stupid.

Just stay away. There are better Venus guys out there.
We are good for novels and romantic literature but not for real life.
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Hahaha. You are cute.

But you dont really want a V in S guy.
We are babies, we expect you to Love us forever and other assorted non-sense.
Then when you ready to dump us, we dont even know how to get over you as fast as you have gotten over us.
We love all heavy and stupid.

Just stay away. There are better Venus guys out there.
We are good for novels and romantic literature but not for real life.



Why so pessimistic about your own Venus sign?
My closest friend has her V in Scorpio and she's amazing, unfortunately she's not a guy lol. But we have this really deep connection. Maybe that's why I am so into finding a guy with Venus in Scorpio, I crave this deep connection.

I've only been with guys that have fire and air venus and I've never felt THAT deep connection, don't know if you have any clue about what connection I mean. It's just something bigger than anything usual, almost spiritual. Maybe it only exists in my little dream-world.

Well, guess I should just get back into my little dream-bubble where everything is possible, maybe one day I'll find what I am looking for, whatever that may be.

(Ps. Who doesn't love heavy and stupid? I sure do. That's why I wouldn't stay away from a Venus in Scorpio) 😄
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If a man's Venus is in Aries, he is often attracted to a tomboyish woman, perhaps athletic in appearance, but more importantly, direct, forthright, and straightforward. Ultra sensitive or shy women are not usually the most attractive women to these men, as they tend to prefer strong and independent types.




HORSE SHIT!

they like it in theory. at the end of the day though, all men are chauvinist pigs who want their women quiet, barefoot and pregnant.


unfortunately, my rams set fire to my slippers and the only way to keep my quiet would be to wire my mouth shut sooooooo, HORSE SHIT! i says...HORSE SHIT!