Do you know why this man is not keen on sex?

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by nightowlfish on Monday, December 12, 2011 and has 10 replies.

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@nightowlfish
14 Years

Hi everevolvingepithet,

Thanks for your reply!

No, not at all! am an energetic, cheer-up, fun loving person you can imagine 🙂

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@happykitsune
15 Years1,000+ Posts

If he's not keen on sex maybe something happened to him in his past where he screwed up during sex and is embarrassed by it now. Or maybe he was molested as a child. I don't think it's based on any placements in his chart. Just be sensitive to the fact that he may not be ready for it yet.

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@wgamador2
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Can someone give me this guys number so i can call him and tell him to bone this chick please. If he knew there were
5-threads dedicated to his lack of libido, it would turn him off.

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@nightowlfish
14 Years

hahahahaha 🙂
at least am smiling thank you guys/gals!

He was married before, if that helps, the other day his ex called, I know she is still around, visited his parents the other weekends
We are going on holiday soon, let's see if this situation will change!

To be honest, I don't know much about his past, he doesn't really like to talk about!

Yeah and everywhere I go, I get compliments from guys/gals about how good I look and it's just getting depressed that you are living with someone whom you go to sleep and get up with without want to touch and feel you? Oh yeah I mentioned to him that I would love to hang around a bit over the weekend in bed, breakfast in bed etc, he came across so defensive and said he wants to be out over the weekend 'cause he works M-F, he wants to be out, see the sun and do something, so he would get up, leave me in bed, turn on TV, browse the internet, and eat his breakfast, and he would come to the room and wake me up, bring me breakfast and tell me he is going to the gym, he needs physical activity!!! He feels good only when he goes to the gym, does his work-out!!

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@wgamador2
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Posted by nightowlfish
hahahahaha 🙂
at least am smiling thank you guys/gals!

We try.
Well I hope you did find some help in here.
Unfortuantely i think he has checked out of the physical aspects of your relationship.

I can speak to you in private, but you may not like what I have to say.
But let me know. Ive asked around and heard of two stories similar to yours from the male point of view.