so where have all the Nice Guys gone——

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by ReallyNiceAriesPerson on Tuesday, December 6, 2011 and has 45 replies.

Where Have All the Nice Guys Gone

Nice guys may be less visible due to changing social dynamics and dating trends, but they still exist. Many are genuine, respectful, and kind but may struggle to stand out in modern relationships. Understanding this shift can help find and appreciate the true qualities of a nice guy.

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@venusianbull
16 Years25,000+ PostsTaurus

OI! You give him back this very instant woman. I will nurse him back to health and he'll be preening his beautiful black feathers again soon. What do you propose? I suppose a payment plan is in order, though Sir Gimps-A-Lot is priceless. I'll get you a jar of peanut butter. Never minding the fact I'll have to craftily construct a wagon for him out of popsicle sticks, glue and these 10 fingers. Poor bugger, you've lamed him. :/

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Centurion: Crucifixion!
Matthias: Oh.
Centurion: Nasty, eh?
Matthias: Could be worse.
Centurion: What you mean "Could be worse"?
Matthias: Well, you could be stabbed.
Centurion: Stabbed? Takes a second. Crucifixion lasts hours. It's a slow, horrible death.
Matthias: Well, at least it gets you out in the open air.
Centurion: You're weird!

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@wgamador2
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Posted by winterwrought
They're part of the endangered species list now. Did you not know?

Damn global warming!!! and internet porn!!!(with the massive amount of internet porn.....we dont have to be nice anymore.)

Certain species arent appreciated until they are all gone.

Endangered Species Terms

VULNERABLE SPECIES - A species particularly at risk because of low or declining numbers or small range, but not a threatened species. (This is what nice-guy virgins fall under)

Threatened species — a species whose population is not yet low enough to be in immediate danger of extinction, but who certainly faces serious problems. If the problems affecting these species aren't resolved, it is probable that the species will become endangered. (This is the nice guy who doesnt know that his girl is seeing someone else behind his back for a month now.)

Endangered species — a specie, plant or animal, that is in immediate danger of becoming extinct. Its numbers are usually low, and it needs protection in order to survive. (This is the nice-guy with a real good job.)

Extinct species — an extinct species is one that is no longer living. The passenger pigeon, the dodo, and the Stegosaurus are examples of extinct species. These animals no longer exist on the earth. (Passenger pigeon should have been using its seat-belt, the Dodo should have eaten more carrots, the Stegosaurus would have made a terrible family pet anyways, imagine THAT pooper-scooper!!!)

So there you have it.....find where your nice-guy falls under.

..............i really should do some "work" here at work.

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Authentic nice guys will have sincere, warm, and honest faces. Your face is a direct reflection of your soul. So look for those with sincere faces. Jerks usually have mean, insincere, arrogant faces. Behavior is important too. Observe how he treats other people (especially those who are socially beneath him). Jerks often exibit selfish behaviors without even being aware of it.

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@wgamador2
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Posted by GreekBarbie
Authentic nice guys will have sincere, warm, and honest faces. Your face is a direct reflection of your soul. So look for those with sincere faces. Jerks usually have mean, insincere, arrogant faces. Behavior is important too. Observe how he treats other people (especially those who are socially beneath him). Jerks often exibit selfish behaviors without even being aware of it.


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"Nice-Hole"

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@wgamador2
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Posted by ellessque
i remember when you shared that pic on your original screen name.

i must tell you again, beautiful eyes 🙂

I always wear my brown contact lenses when im robbing the bank. lol.

Seriously though, Look who is talking about beautiful eyes!!!!
thats like the 'kind' calling the 'skunk' sticky!!
(little marijuana reference there)

I can only imagine what it would be like to get out of the shower and look into your eyes.

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@GreekBarbie
16 YearsCancer

Posted by Slicks

Posted by GreekBarbie
Authentic nice guys will have sincere, warm, and honest faces. Your face is a direct reflection of your soul. So look for those with sincere faces. Jerks usually have mean, insincere, arrogant faces. Behavior is important too. Observe how he treats other people (especially those who are socially beneath him). Jerks often exibit selfish behaviors without even being aware of it.

This is interesting. Did you come up with this by yourself or did you read it somewhere?

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Just certain patterns and similarties that I've noticed over the years from observing people. When observing jerks of both genders in particular, you can almost always detect a lack of concern for others in the little things that they do. They, of course are not aware of this but other people can see nonetheless.

You'll never come across a mean girl in highschool or a lying, cheating womanizer with an honest, sincere face. Their faces will most likely be brimming with ego and their normal day to day actions will show a lack of concern for others.

Our faces look like the inside of our souls. There's no way to hide this. Mean people think mean thoughts and they will without a doubt have a mean face to prove it.

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Posted by TaurGuy

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Posted by UsernameTaken
i'd put my two cents in but i'd hate to get attacked by that Scorp again 😛 *cue Jaws music*

No - this is my thread - there will be no attacking of anyone.
We are here to relax and have a bit of fun

This is supposed to be a happy occasion. Let's not bicker and argue over who killed who....

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Dingo: You must spank her well, and after you are done with her, you may deal with her as you like... and then... spank me.
All: And me. And me too. And me.
Dingo: Yes. Yes, you must give us all a good spanking.

Dingo: And after the spanking, the oral sex.
Galahad: Well, I could stay a bit longer...

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15 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

See, here's the problem in American society.

Many (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) American women tend to be whiny democrats who abhor the idea of dating a Republican.

Many Republican men (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) I know and associate with are in the military, and enjoy hunting, motorcycling, mountaineering, racing, SCUBA diving, football and stuff like that. Basically they are REAL men.

Most Democrat men I know tend to act like pussies, don't know how to shoot a weapon, don't know how to ride a motorcycle, abhor the idea of serving in the military and are basically whiners about everything.

Here's where the problem lies:

Because many democrat women are ultimately repulsive to REAL men, they often have a hard time finding a real man, and are frequently stuck with cry-baby democrat men.

Now that said, you want a GOOD guy, not a nice guy.

Nice guys tend to get walked on and mistreated by people because they are too nice, whereas a GOOD guy knows politeness and decency, yet speaks up when the bullshit surfaces and is willing to defend himself/other people.

BAD guys tend to mistreat people, whether it's through physical violence or having sex with a woman and then quickly abandoning her. Those are obviously the kind you don't want.

See the differences?

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Posted by ScorpioFish
See, here's the problem in American society.

Many (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) American women tend to be whiny democrats who abhor the idea of dating a Republican.

Many Republican men (NOTE I DID NOT SAY ALL) I know and associate with are in the military, and enjoy hunting, motorcycling, mountaineering, racing, SCUBA diving, football and stuff like that. Basically they are REAL men.

Most Democrat men I know tend to act like pussies, don't know how to shoot a weapon, don't know how to ride a motorcycle, abhor the idea of serving in the military and are basically whiners about everything.

Here's where the problem lies:

Because many democrat women are ultimately repulsive to REAL men, they often have a hard time finding a real man, and are frequently stuck with cry-baby democrat men.

Now that said, you want a GOOD guy, not a nice guy.

Nice guys tend to get walked on and mistreated by people because they are too nice, whereas a GOOD guy knows politeness and decency, yet speaks up when the bullshit surfaces and is willing to defend himself/other people.

BAD guys tend to mistreat people, whether it's through physical violence or having sex with a woman and then quickly abandoning her. Those are obviously the kind you don't want.

See the differences?

Yes.
Good Guys Finish Second.

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19 Years

Where is my John Wayne
Where is my prairie son
Where is my happy ending
Where have all the cowboys gone

Why don't you stay the evening
Kick back and watch the TV
And I'll fix a little something to eat
Oh I know your back hurts from working on the tractor
How do you take your coffee my sweet
I will raise the children if you pay all the bills

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16 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

"Nice Guy" is a bit of a broad term and perhaps some good men classify themselves as "Nice" not realizing the term is negatively connotative. Clarification may be needed.

"What is a 'Nice Guy'?"

A Nice Guy is a guy who tells you, in a bitter, resentful tone, that women don't date "nice guys," they only date "bad boys," and because he's "too nice," women only view him as a friend.

What's wrong with that statement?

He's not a friend to women...