*insert astrological sign here* disappear!

Did you notice if you google any sign and the word disappeared they all come up with disappearing as a trait? So maybe it's not just cancers who "disappear". Could it be possible they are just not that into you.

I was in shock m'self. 😛

LMAO ^ That'll teach me to do chores, e-mail, walk to the post office and put supper in the slow cooker.

It's a basic man thing:

Men's interest = attraction. Its because men first go out with a woman based on attraction before he knows anything about her - he hasn't considered whether he likes her or not - he is just attracted. Then once he decides she is not "it" he pulls back, disappears.

Woman's interest = mental. A woman goes out with a man based on something mental, a quality she sees in him that she likes. So she already has considered whether she likes him or not before they even go out. She puts more thought into it. when he pulls back, she is offended.

Just a theory - and it's not true for everyone!

I keep on reading that this is something that Virgo males do but as a Virgo male myself I don't relate to this at all. I think Linda Goodman also said that it is something that Capricorn males do when they feel under too much pressure.

Posted by truecap

It's a basic man thing:

Men's interest = attraction. Its because men first go out with a woman based on attraction before he knows anything about her - he hasn't considered whether he likes her or not - he is just attracted. Then once he decides she is not "it" he pulls back, disappears.

Woman's interest = mental. A woman goes out with a man based on something mental, a quality she sees in him that she likes. So she already has considered whether she likes him or not before they even go out. She puts more thought into it. when he pulls back, she is offended.

Sorry...but B.S. says "bs on that one." Thats disingenuous. Well all know women are just as much into looks as men are. I rarely see both sexes flat out holla at an ugly man/woman from the get go. The reality is as both sexes mature, looks become less important on average. Women do focus on the mental a little more...but not that much. As for disappearing, men are more guilty of it. Immaturity.

I see what you are saying. Perhaps its my age that makes me think this way. But how many good looking men do you know that are arrogant, assholes, losers, snobs, stupid, etc? I wouldn't go out with them no matter how good looking they are. A man is more likely to put up with a bitch just because she's beautiful and looks good on his arm. Then again, perhaps, its just me.

Posted by truecap
I see what you are saying. Perhaps its my age that makes me think this way. But how many good looking men do you know that are arrogant, assholes, losers, snobs, stupid, etc? I wouldn't go out with them no matter how good looking they are. A man is more likely to put up with a bitch just because she's beautiful and looks good on his arm. Then again, perhaps, its just me.

Lol, I see your point, but then again look at the topic of the forum. I guess they ain't puttin up with it either lol