The Virgal Sagiguy problems - for the virgal

Alright, because this couple is really underexposed (at least to me) and everyone seemed to be saying that we're doomed from the beginning, I will write down whatever problems I encounter with this sagiguy.

On the hindsight, I'm a Virgo/Leo cusp and He's a Sagi/Cappy cusp.

What to expect on dating this guy:
- His initial attention towards you will be overwhelming. If he really likes you, he really likes you. If he loves you, he loves you. Everrry minute of the day. Don't doubt on that. Don't even question that. Virgos are usually suspicious and question why and EXCEPTIONALLY SHY. But just go with the flow. He will not miss a single thing on your body. My sagiguy asks noticed when I don't put on mascaras - it's not even that noticeable. He admires my fingers and just kisses them everytime we meet. It's a great period of time, so just enjoy it - because it won't last for long!!!!! For these sagiguy, virgal are exceptionally sweet and feminine so they do take care of them and try to do no wrongs. It doesn't last, ok. My guy is the A male, it brings out all the femininity in me. The virgal will overfret on how they look everytime they date: Keep it clean. If you're a virgo, that's who you are already. Extra stress is unnecessary - save it for the next.

- Have a life. There will be a period when he's over it, and distracted by other things. You will, all out of a sudden, wake up without him. This is normal. It doesn't mean that he's over you. He's just into other things. That's that to it. He will then deprive you of all the attention you were getting. Suddenly he needs his space. Suddenly you don't know what the hell is going on with him anymore. This. Is. Normal. Virgal gets a hard time over this. Keep. your. chill. It doesn't mean your initial suspicion that he's only nice to _____ is real, it's just a part of the process. Don't judge. The hardest part is not to question/ keep the question to yourself. The virgal tends to confront and pursue the answer will all possible ways, sagi hates confrontation. But IF he really loves you (most likely if he still sticks around, he does), he'll get over your questioning nature. You will not get your answer, my dear virgal, because he doesn't break down his actions the way you do. He's the just do type. If you can get over it, it's a progress. If you think he's too much, save yourself because this will happen A LOT.

- When problem arises. Virgo is very good with problems. Most of the days you will see them float around with the most menial problems that seems to only exist because they think too much. Sagi, on the other hands, have a lot of problems. Most of them arise because they have many lose ends and seemed like they don't give much to responsibilities. Sagi doesn't like you to tell them how to deal with it because they don't see them as problems they need to fix. Virgos, do. Stop here. Don't butt in, just lay down the terms: I don't want your problems to affect me whatsoever. Sag will keep their words. But they will need to know that you are the warmhearted creature they love, support him. This is a virgo strength, to be an angel. Because we can just give and give and give. So this is the time you give and give and give, because the only sign that can appreciate your giving at the grand scale is sag.

- The commitment problems: Virgo sees commitment as a contract. Sag sees commitment as a luggage tag (that's how I call it if you know what I mean). They see it as something that just happens and don't really bother to work it out. It's like, if you're with me then you're with me. If not, think what you want to think. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that sag doesn't cherish the relationship. They just view it as something that happens, it's a part of their life. Virgo is like, we need to WORK for it. The good sag will understand this, and if he's a good man, he will reassure you from time to time because he knows you need it. Just accept the difference anyway, because if you can accept it, then you're good. If you cannot, save yourself, because this is what it's like.

The best part of this relationship is, they both bring the best out of each other. They will adore each other endlessly if they can overcome the differences. And they understand each other effortlessly. The worst part is (for a virgal), there is no such thing as settling down because everyday is an adventure and it can be exhausting because we're talking about emotional ride. If you're up for it, you're up for it. Otherwise, depending on how mature is your partner, you can unleash everything you have at him and see how he reacts. Mine reacts calmly. I super love him for that. And I'm not a neurotic person, I can get over something very fast and accept things I don't understand. On top of that, we love eachother's sense of humor. So it works for us.

Here's another thing: It won't be a typical relationship. It's fun and bumpy and sometimes it goes WTF for the both of you. But if it works, stop the pros and cons list and go on because what matters the most if you're happy. If you're more tortured that happy, you should forget the whole thing - seriously.

🙂 I think the fact that you're both cusps is really special. I can see why it would work out better than expected.

Plus, I've heard of Sagi/Virgo couplings working out. Virgos are usually really fascinated by the Sagi's carefree nature, and us Sagis really appreciate how grounded and solid Virgos are.

I feel like this is totally true. I'm not a cusp but I've got a mars, venus, and mercury in capricorn and this sums me up in a nutshell, at least relationship-wise.