Tipping into being in a relationship

I’m thinking of getting back in touch soon with a Virgo man after a period of no communication between us to see if we can make a go of things. We dated but didn’t get to having sex (my decision, definitely not his lol!) as it was a bit soon and I wanted to get to know him more first on other levels.

He mentioned his two past live in relationships he’d had previous to meeting me - and from what he said they both seemed q. superficial with no real bond other than sex. he’d been q. fast to enter into both these relationships not really thinking about it he said. When we were dating he said he wanted to take it slowly in terms of casual to start - then seeing if it developed into a relationship.

I was wary of this - so broke things off. (But wanted to keep friends)

Anyway - just curious as to what makes a Virgo guy commit in a relationship? (He clearly knows sex isn’t everything - but I’m not sure he knows what it is he IS looking for as well!!) soooo frustrating when he is now being super cautious but isn’t entirely sure what he’s looking for!!

He doesn’t look to commit to someone as judgmental as you, that’s for sure.

The guy was honest with you and you chose to minimize his past relationships and run away.

I guess you’re a bit dry and think he must of wanted you BADDD so you’re confident in thinking you can come back all fair weather like that.

You don’t even know the guy in depth and you’re asking how to make a virgo commit? Sounds like you’re the superficial one.

Look at yourself to see what you can offer besides your close minded judgment. Sex is part of the connection.