tauruslake
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Trying to catch that Virgo male
Just be careful Virgo's have the ability to give you butterflies and make you feel super special but they also have the ability to do this times 2 or 3 so it won't just be you... They legit know how to lead a double lie-fe pay attention if you notice a pattern take flight and forget about em.
Be yourself. If he is interested the no problems.
Learn to be patient and walk the pace he walks.
No more no less.
Learn to be patient and walk the pace he walks.
No more no less.
Good luck Taurus fullmoon coming do 't let it blow up in your face.
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeThis right here.
Treat them like shit, they love it swear, this guy i been ignoring for 2 years, he still sends me messages every week
why. why. why.
Don’t do anything. The less you do the better of chance you have to get any man.
Your first move should probably be to break things off with your boyfriend.
Hey all... I did finish things with my boyfriend, that happened before I posted this question, so no worries about that! Me and the virgo have been texting back and forth a little, but nothing crazy.. We made him a birthday cake at work (his childhood favourite) that I presented him with, and that was the last time I've seen him for weeks... He was on holiday and now I am on holiday 🙂
He will be spending a lot of time in my area in the run up to Christmas, so hopefully I will get to see a lot more of him and win him over.. We shall see!
He will be spending a lot of time in my area in the run up to Christmas, so hopefully I will get to see a lot more of him and win him over.. We shall see!
Posted by CaramelizedCoffeeDude this is so true haha
Treat them like shit, they love it swear, this guy i been ignoring for 2 years, he still sends me messages every week
why. why. why.
Posted by tauruslake
Hey all... I did finish things with my boyfriend, that happened before I posted this question, so no worries about that! Me and the virgo have been texting back and forth a little, but nothing crazy.. We made him a birthday cake at work (his childhood favourite) that I presented him with, and that was the last time I've seen him for weeks... He was on holiday and now I am on holiday 🙂
He will be spending a lot of time in my area in the run up to Christmas, so hopefully I will get to see a lot more of him and win him over.. We shall see!
You’re thinking about this all wrong. He should be trying to win you over.
Lol thank you. I don't necessarily believe in playing hard to get...if you want something then why shouldn't you attempt to achieve it?
I know he can be quite shy, and being in the public eye he doesn't like to draw too much attention to himself when he is having his own time...He is quite content to sit and observe me work, but quickly looks away if attention is drawn to him.
I know he can be quite shy, and being in the public eye he doesn't like to draw too much attention to himself when he is having his own time...He is quite content to sit and observe me work, but quickly looks away if attention is drawn to him.
Posted by aquarius_manI didn’t say anything about playing hard to get.Posted by bkbella86no, since she is obviously interested and not trying to play hard to get. i know a virgo male - taurus female married couple, and its like she s the man and he s the woman.im sure she proposed, too 😛 the virgo guys i know are shy and it will take a while until they muster the courage to do smth about their romantic interest
You’re thinking about this all wrong. He should be trying to win you over.
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Posted by tauruslakeI never mentioned playing hard to get. I said he should be winning you over not the other way around.
Lol thank you. I don't necessarily believe in playing hard to get...if you want something then why shouldn't you attempt to achieve it?
I know he can be quite shy, and being in the public eye he doesn't like to draw too much attention to himself when he is having his own time...He is quite content to sit and observe me work, but quickly looks away if attention is drawn to him.
Dating is a Game, if you approach him I can guarantee it won’t turn out well. If it does I’d be shocked.
Also you asked about how to attract, but you want to pursue that’s diff. Men like to feel masculine and making the first move is masculine.
Sorry guys, this wasn't meant to turn into a debate on gender roles here! But I agree, right now he has the upper hand and I freely admit that.. The one thing I have I at the minute is the fact that his family, who I've spent more time with than with him, all love me.. For example his mother wants us to go out for some 'girls time.'..... Although whether that really is a plus on my side could be up for debate haha.
Posted by aquarius_manShe can use her feminine charm to attract him. It will work out much better that way.Posted by bkbella86that's aggravating. that you think that only because he s a male he must chase her. the way i see it, she s into him more than he s into her. he s got the upper hand here, so the gender doesn't matter. it's just tactics. she could make herself 'seen', tease him at least and then let him do the chase. and anyway he looks busy with the match and everything and she works at the inn all day
I didn’t say anything about playing hard to get.
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I just think men don’t appreciate things given to them easily, actually people in general. And if she started off pursuing the whole relationship will be unbalanced with her putting in most the effort.
Posted by tauruslakeHis family isn’t him.
Sorry guys, this wasn't meant to turn into a debate on gender roles here! But I agree, right now he has the upper hand and I freely admit that.. The one thing I have I at the minute is the fact that his family, who I've spent more time with than with him, all love me.. For example his mother wants us to go out for some 'girls time.'..... Although whether that really is a plus on my side could be up for debate haha.
Haha... I know his family isn't him, that's pretty obvious, but thank you for the observation, I will bear it in mind..and by your logic... If he started off being the one pursuing the relationship, that would also make it unbalanced? Either way would tip the scales... In an ideal world, both would equally pursue a relationship and then both sides would be equally balanced, no? Unfortunately we do not live in an ideal world, otherwise I would have ten dogs, a library and an extensive wine cellar 🙂
Well I like to think that I can pull it off to a certain degree, but I guess the proof is in the pudding - so if you guys have any tips, please don't be shy!
Home in just over a week, so I guess feminine charm will commence then.
Home in just over a week, so I guess feminine charm will commence then.
If you want a virgo, you can't have an expectation. We are so sensitive to that and grow bore with expectation. If you want us, you will wait.
Posted by aquarius_mansometimes it seems that way with my sag sister with her virgo man. it's like she wears the pants.Posted by bkbella86no, since she is obviously interested and not trying to play hard to get. i know a virgo male - taurus female married couple, and its like she s the man and he s the woman.im sure she proposed, too 😛 the virgo guys i know are shy and it will take a while until they muster the courage to do smth about their romantic interest
You’re thinking about this all wrong. He should be trying to win you over.
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just small things i notice. like he has NO say in alot of stuff that is important. financial and even baby matters ..
edit but these virgo guys we know aren't like Sean Connery lol
my double virgo father in law is very very different.
Posted by VirgoDragirl
If you want a virgo, you can't have an expectation. We are so sensitive to that and grow bore with expectation. If you want us, you will wait.
Oh I can wait, I have bags of patience when it comes to things like this, probably the taurean stubbornness coming through, but I always get what I want in the end .I've been reading everything I can get my hands on about Virgos and how they work haha.
Just a little update, back at work last night and he came in with his family. I got a little awkward because his mum kept saying how well I looked, which made him constantly turn to look at me. He left early but I was sat and chatting to his family until they were the last people left..He text this morning to say it was nice to see me. The tiniest of boring updates I know!
that was the way I felt with my son's father - me Taurus, he Virgo - and he felt that way about me as well - that was a very - very long time ago
we are still friends because of our son and grandchildren but I couldn't stay in it because he liked other women too much - that was his only issue but it is a deal breaker
one thing just in the last few posts - you don't want him to feel like he's "boxed-in" with his mother /family liking you and all - he needs to feel free to - more or less take the lead no matter what ... just an observation and of course I may be wrong
we are still friends because of our son and grandchildren but I couldn't stay in it because he liked other women too much - that was his only issue but it is a deal breaker
one thing just in the last few posts - you don't want him to feel like he's "boxed-in" with his mother /family liking you and all - he needs to feel free to - more or less take the lead no matter what ... just an observation and of course I may be wrong
Posted by tauruslakePosted by VirgoDragirl
If you want a virgo, you can't have an expectation. We are so sensitive to that and grow bore with expectation. If you want us, you will wait.
Oh I can wait, I have bags of patience when it comes to things like this, probably the taurean stubbornness coming through, but I always get what I want in the end .I've been reading everything I can get my hands on about Virgos and how they work haha.
Just a little update, back at work last night and he came in with his family. I got a little awkward because his mum kept saying how well I looked, which made him constantly turn to look at me. He left early but I was sat and chatting to his family until they were the last people left..He text this morning to say it was nice to see me. The tiniest of boring updates I know!click to expand
Doesn’t sound promising. And text see useless.
Which part ? If you mean the leaving early, he was his brothers chauffeur that night and had to take him back down to Manchester 🙂
Thanks tctao, of course I don't want him to feel boxed in; it's just his family are very, very welcoming once they get to know you and take you into the fold, so to speak!
Thanks tctao, of course I don't want him to feel boxed in; it's just his family are very, very welcoming once they get to know you and take you into the fold, so to speak!
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