i've been dating this guy for 2 months. we were really good friends before hand. needless to say, i'm entirely in love with him. he's the best guy i've ever been with. lately i've noticed (thru text) he's been being shorter with me. & when i try to be sweet and create a deep convo, he doesn't join in. i just feel unloved. i try to ask if anything is wrong and he doesn't say anything. also when we do hang out, he always HAS to bring his best friend around with his (his friend just got out of rehab..) and every time we are alone, he cries or gets upset when i say i dont want his friend with us. i know he loves me but i'm confused about why he doesn't talk like he used to to me thru the phone and why he always has to be with his friend. he's told me he wants to marry me, etc... and soon i'm leaving for college. it's about an hour & a half away but still... we need good communication and i need to feel loved... like i'm receiving all i'm giving.
My chart: sun in sag, leo moon, sag mercury, scorpio venus, virgo mars, gemini rising His chart: scorpio sun, cancer moon, scorpio mercury, libra venus, virgo mars, aries rising
You are right he needs to communicate... It could work... As an air placement you need to not feel insecure in your relationship. His Saturn just turned direct in scorpio... and will be leaving which should be way better. It still has a bit till it leaves Scorpio though... so hold on and try to be understanding. Scorpio's are loyal once committed and I am sure his friend is weighing on him as well. The friend must be close and you can't ask him to sacrifice him being there for his friend when his friend is getting his life together. Just ride it out and have faith.
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My chart: sun in sag, leo moon, sag mercury, scorpio venus, virgo mars, gemini rising
His chart: scorpio sun, cancer moon, scorpio mercury, libra venus, virgo mars, aries rising