Venus is on its way to being RETRO~~~

And I can feel it already..

So if you have some unfinished busniess with a ex or some ex's beaware, cause one could
come back disguised as the real thing..Usually its for some unlearned lesson(s)..

How long will it stay?

4 Weeks I believe. May -15

This does not bode well for the person, or me rather, I am "dating", considering he still has a thing for his ex.

Please none of my exes even have a chance of getting me back...and I just changed my phone number so that should handle anyone who would like to try

Trying to get my divorce final! Hope this don't screw it up!

Oh gosh I hope my "ex" Cap "man" doesn't return! I really don't feel like being thrown away like a piece of trash for a third time! NO....PLEASE NOT HIM!! LOL...No offense to Capricorns intended, you're some cool people:-)

BINGO! (I was aware of the exes coming back thing blah blah)

My cap ex just texted me out of the blue wanting to do something together tomorrow, normally Im the one who initiated any kind of contact after our breakup. I decided it was time for her to take the initiative too lol

(Whoa. I know it has been a long time since I've been here but the last time I was here you and your cap seemed really happy. Shaks. Sorry to hear it ended.)

Posted by little_sparrow
(Whoa. I know it has been a long time since I've been here but the last time I was here you and your cap seemed really happy. Shaks. Sorry to hear it ended.)

Awww Ive missed you LS 🙂 glad to see you around again. Dont worry about the breakup, it was like 6 months ago, Im pretty much over it already..obviously with the help of new women 😛

I thought Venus retro was a good thing? (and I am not biased by hearing from an ex-sweetheart about how I look too good for him to ever lose touch again!!)




Yaaaaay Sparra! I thought you had flown the coop😢

Well Tomorrow Venus Turns Retro. So rather you want to or not you may hear from and ex or perhaps coincidently run into one. NOT ALL of your ex's will be calling you. Perhaps it will be one that you loved deeply and things ended strangely or it seemed unfinished. I would take it for what its worth, maybe its to get some closure or whatever. If you do hook back up with one I would take it slow until Venus turns back direct. I went through this one time with a Ex that I still love. He came back into my life durning the Venus in Retro 2009. It was blissful and I know that he loved me. He thought that he was ready to make a commitment but as Venus turned direct he began to get cold feet again. And well the relationship went south. So you may end up revisiting an issue from the past. Get it resolved if it needs to be. It could turn into something more, but I would wait until this is all over to be for sure.

"They say in some websites that this Venus retro is about sorting an ex issue that goes back around May 2004?!"

Wow, I didnt read that, but thats the month and the year that I met the ex I mention above. Ironically, I have been having some strange dreams about him that started about 2 weeks ago. I am not gonna even touch it. lol

^^^^^^ +1 I agree thats to much and I would just avoid that all together..lol

LOL ^^^

(Glad to hear Shaks, you studmuffin you. 😛)

Posted by everevolvingepithet
If it was a school reunion just pretend you don't recognise them and wander on lol.

At our age we could claim Altzeimers

Please insert "h" in there

Posted by little_sparrow
(Glad to hear Shaks, you studmuffin you. 😛)

😉

Hows everything with you? still with the aqua or aries dude you were so serious about?

I've had two ex's contact me in the past week and they can both suck a fat one.

Some how my ex lovers have found a way to contact me. My gem ex professed his love for me last night and want to be back together, I cant tell if he is genuine. It would be very hard to revisit it again being that I detached my feelings and emotions for him already.

Posted by bkbella86
Some how my ex lovers have found a way to contact me. My gem ex professed his love for me last night and want to be back together, I cant tell if he is genuine. It would be very hard to revisit it again being that I detached my feelings and emotions for him already.

Oh dear. Get that in writing. No offence to the Gems, but I have heard this before too.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by bkbella86
Some how my ex lovers have found a way to contact me. My gem ex professed his love for me last night and want to be back together, I cant tell if he is genuine. It would be very hard to revisit it again being that I detached my feelings and emotions for him already.

Oh dear. Get that in writing. No offence to the Gems, but I have heard this before too.

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He is full of shit, I have decided that after thinking about how last night really played out. He just wanted to see if I still felt the same way about him I think it was a ego thing for him. Then on top of that he tried to sleep with me, like how appropriate, you profess ya love and then try to sleep with me. I would have considered letting him have a piece had he not professed his FAKE feelings for me. I somehow feel better tho, not hurt like I was before.

But Sat it was my Pisces ex I mean literally one by one... They all seem to be full of shit tho so I guesss I need to learn to be a better judge of character.

Two exes are hovering just made another post complaining about it. Both of them made me angry and upset. That and my recent ex I am still fuming about. (Sigh)

Posted by Striking
And I can feel it already..

come back disguised as the real thing..Usually its for some unlearned lesson(s)..

Disguised as the real thing? So that means it's really a crock of shit huh? My ex came back because we're going through similar situations in our lives, & I only wanted him for the moment, now he can go kick rocks. We've discussed things about our previous relationship, but it's not going anywhere. I don't want to re-kindle shit with him but I understand why we didn't make it.

So I guess that was the unresolved issue. Question though? When they do come back, are they here to stay? Or is it just a passing fancy? & when is this damn retro over? I DO NOT want to be bothered with anymore ex's!!!!

Posted by bkbella86
Some how my ex lovers have found a way to contact me. My gem ex professed his love for me last night and want to be back together, I cant tell if he is genuine. It would be very hard to revisit it again being that I detached my feelings and emotions for him already.

Lol..he probably just wanted to fuck.

I think it's over mid to late June. You really shouldn't do anything love related while Venus is in retro. If you begin a relationship during this time, or you start to get closer to someone during this time; try and keep it light and unemotional. People should try and not get married during this time as well- kind of ironic since its wedding season. This time is about rectifying the past, changing patterns that don't work and ensuring you don't fall into old habits. It's like a mirror that reflects the past. I was very cordial to my two exes who dropped by and that was all the closure I needed. Only you know if they come back to stay and the only indication would be an extreme difference in how you communicate now. Other than that if there are two many red flags from the past most likely it means you need to learn something and move on.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
I think it's over mid to late June. You really shouldn't do anything love related while Venus is in retro. If you begin a relationship during this time, or you start to get closer to someone during this time; try and keep it light and unemotional.

Why is this? Is it because it won't last? When my ex & I connected he told me something that just turned me off & I don't want to be back with him at all. I guess we resolved what we needed to. He asked me to "Hit him up"...NOT HAPPENING. So do they just come back for that reason alone? Closure, etc.? When if someone did get married, does that mean it won't last? I don't understand this retro shit man...smh.

I actually was getting closer to someone, but it fucked up. This was around the 17th, could the retro have affected this somehow? Funny thing is, I know this person will return, AFTER the retro is over.

Think of it as a love test prepared especially for you, and yes you will be graded. Exes coming back could be about closure, or in my case it was about testing my disposition to see if I had truly made it over the hurdle with them.....even though it had been years, and years. I don't think you can successfully walk into your future of love if you have issues from the past and this includes your own thoughts and feelings about men or women and how you handled these engagements. Couples who get married during the retro don't necessasarily face harder obstacles but it's a greater chance they are marrying a person who doesn't represent mature growth.....regardless of how long or short they have known each other. Think about this way; when you get married you marry where you are at that time in your life. You can grow within a marriage but not at the same rate as you would if you were single and content. Think about a relationship you had that wasn't all good, but wasn't all bad, you just weren't meant to be. These are the couples who get married during the retro.

Real Talk: ppl can get married during a Venus retro, it was planned before the retro so that's diffrent. Its those relationships that are over and come back during the retro one should worry about. Venus retro's aware nothing but for unfinished business of a old relationships that may have not been closed properly. A person does not have to participate or be bothered if they don't wanna be. Once Venus returns they usually don't last.

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I know that I'm going psycho...all my emotions are crazy...I hate it!!! Like maybe 1 hr ago my ex Taurus called me, talking about old days and stuff...Not interested at all. But I guess it's about closure for him because to me its been closed a long time ago. I wasted too much in that relationship to give it anymore time talking about the past.

So what do you guys do to calm down and not act so crazy? Suggestions are welcome😢

Posted by Striking
Real Talk: ppl can get married during a Venus retro, it was planned before the retro so that's diffrent. Its those relationships that are over and come back during the retro one should worry about. Venus retro's aware nothing but for unfinished business of a old relationships that may have not been closed properly. A person does not have to participate or be bothered if they don't wanna be. Once Venus returns they usually don't last.

This is so effing true it's not even funny. Another ex came back. One that I had loved for years & just got over 2 years ago. Now he professes his love to me, telling me he wishes we can be together...lol. In the back of my mind all I kept thinking about was venus retro, venus retro. I got some closure though. After all these fucking years...smh. But I am glad about it though. Funny thing is, I know he'll be back.

Posted by TaurusBadGirl
I know that I'm going psycho...all my emotions are crazy...I hate it!!! Like maybe 1 hr ago my ex Taurus called me, talking about old days and stuff...Not interested at all. But I guess it's about closure for him because to me its been closed a long time ago. I wasted too much in that relationship to give it anymore time talking about the past.

So what do you guys do to calm down and not act so crazy? Suggestions are welcome😢

OMG...this shit is really freaking me out. Happened to me too. The Scorpio guy I was telling you about. Now he wants to tell me he loves me & wants to be with me. I'm like are you effing kidding me? After all this time? I needed closure with him though. He told me what I needed after 10 fucking years. 10 FUCKING YEARS!!!! I'm paying him...*dust*

Taurusbadgirl: if you are done with an ex and made it clear and have moved on there should be no craziness involved. It's like that R. Kelly song when a woman's fed up, ain't nothing you can do about it. All I can say is keeping going forward if that's what you have been doing.

Posted by Striking
Taurusbadgirl: if you are done with an ex and made it clear and have moved on there should be no craziness involved. It's like that R. Kelly song when a woman's fed up, ain't nothing you can do about it. All I can say is keeping going forward if that's what you have been doing.

No Striking I was not saying I was going crazy because of the ex...oh no...I was saying that I have been going crazy lately, but nothing having to do with him..He has been out of my life and will stay like that. I have a fascinating man in my life and I want no other.🙂 Thank you