Virgo and Libra Relationship Advice please?

he is:
Virgo Sun
Pisces Moon
Libra Mercury
Virgo Venus
Libra Ascendant

I am:
Libra Sun
Aries Moon
Libra Mercury
Libra Venus
Libra Ascendant

Anyway, this guy and I date for a year before we broke up. Our relationship at this point was shaky because we barely got to see each other because of summer break, and he worked full time. And we are better when we're physically together. We rarely argue in person, but over text, it gets UGLY.

I broke his trust, which was already rocky to begin with. I told him that I'll earn back his trust no matter what i takes, and he reluctantly agreed to giving me that chance because he said he had given me enough chances already. after our breakup (we both cried and held each other. Very emotional lol) we still texted and saw each other. Hell, we even slept together. I knew that he still loves me and he tells me he still does. We were also flirtatious. And occasionally, I would blow up on him emotionally about why he needs to take me back (oops.)

Then, I said something to set him off. Apparently, I lied to him, but in my opinion I didn't. He asked me if I liked this one thing or the other better, and I said both. The reason that was a lie to him was because back when we were dating, he asked the same question, but I picked one answer back then. Now that my answer has changed, I apparently lied to him. The thing is that I don't remember him ever asking me that question the first time. So I was mad and he said he was done for good and we can only be friends.

Then, I gave myself some space from him and during those two days (I know, I'm weak when it comes to being alone), he consistently and constantly checked my Tumblr blog. Like every hour of every day he was free, during his breaks at work. Even now, he still checks it. What does that mean?

Also, a part of me wants to let go because he said he's done, but I fight for what I love so I don't want to give up either. I feel like trying but I don't want do. Should I employ the No Contact rule or
should I keep texting him, be his friend, and hope for the best? We're going to be college freshmen in about a month, and we have the same class schedule for this semester so we're going to be seeing each other a lot.

I know he still loves me and I'm his first love... I believe I deserve a chance because i know I can give him what he needs and wants. Also, our time apart gave me the chance to improve myself. I Just don't know what step I should take next so

jfc

Posted by dvnielle


he is:
Virgo Sun


Also, a part of me wants to let go because he said he's done,
I know he still loves me and I'm his first love... I believe I deserve a chance because i know I can give him what he needs and wants.

I'm surprised he gave you a chance, and then you betray his trust again.

If he's a true Virgo..you blew it. You don't get any more chances. Move on.