So confused... so not too long ago I asked out a Virgo guy out. ( I'm a libra girl ) we went out for lunch it was really great, he kept giving me advise, sort of like being over protective! He has a temperament too, sort of short tempered. Anyways I let him know that the minute he yells out me, I'll be yelling twice as louder. He said it was ok, that's how we'll be getting along! After that I stopped talking to him, my grandpa had passed away so I had no head to think about dating. After that passed I asked him out again, he grinned that I had asked him out, little did he know I wanted to do a group date! He said maybe next time, that really bummed me out so I ignored it. Third times the charm and I asked him out again and he asked me if I was available during the weekend, the first time went out it was a Friday during lunch hours. Oh yeah he's my coworkers! So I said yeah, I was available and nothing happened!? What!? I emailed him, and text him if we were still going out but nothing! The next time I saw him it was like nothing had happened, like if I never asked him out, I was furious. That was last month, since than I've been really angry at him, he even noticed and he's returning the same anger towards me, we're rude to each other. Question is I don't want to be angry anymore and I want to let this all out, how can I tell him, it's ok, let's not be mad? I'm sorry? Is it too late, to be just friends? Help.
Virgo Dude

Tell him all that you feel you need to say.. just don't say sorry.

Posted by Floresita000
So confused... so not too long ago I asked out a Virgo guy out. ( I'm a libra girl ) we went out for lunch it was really great, he kept giving me advise, sort of like being over protective! He has a temperament too, sort of short tempered. Anyways I let him know that the minute he yells out me, I'll be yelling twice as louder. He said it was ok, that's how we'll be getting along! After that I stopped talking to him, my grandpa had passed away so I had no head to think about dating. After that passed I asked him out again, he grinned that I had asked him out, little did he know I wanted to do a group date! He said maybe next time, that really bummed me out so I ignored it. Third times the charm and I asked him out again and he asked me if I was available during the weekend, the first time went out it was a Friday during lunch hours. Oh yeah he's my coworkers! So I said yeah, I was available and nothing happened!? What!? I emailed him, and text him if we were still going out but nothing! The next time I saw him it was like nothing had happened, like if I never asked him out, I was furious. That was last month, since than I've been really angry at him, he even noticed and he's returning the same anger towards me, we're rude to each other. Question is I don't want to be angry anymore and I want to let this all out, how can I tell him, it's ok, let's not be mad? I'm sorry? Is it too late to be just friends? Help.
Stop chasing him. Stop asking him out. Unless you have a penis don't do the pursuing.
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