Sebastian
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Virgo Guy (Me) and Libra..Not so great
I was dating a Virgo once similarish story, although I wasnt dating anyone else. We just didnt click sexually at all! I thought he was a decent but boring lay, he probably thought the same about me! haha yet I am anything but!
He just didnt bring out my wild side. I have only dated one Virgo but I wil not be in a rush to do it again, he was a nice guy, but I have never been so sexually uncompatable with a guy in my life!!
He just didnt bring out my wild side. I have only dated one Virgo but I wil not be in a rush to do it again, he was a nice guy, but I have never been so sexually uncompatable with a guy in my life!!
Virgo doesn't ring Libra's temple bell.
The thing is Libra is a bit of a free spirit. The more love you give us, the more we glow. But your problem is right where your question is asked. You criticize the girl for being sexual. Let's face it you believe she is something of a whore. So she shuts down her sex drive to please you, to prove she is a good girl. (which she probably is.) Then you complain that she isn't sexual. Well of course she isn't sexual with you! DUH! Female sexuality is a very delicate thing especially because there is so much judgement about it. These things are nuanced and subtle. You pried into her own fear about herself and her sexuality and sat in judgement of her. You betrayed her in a huge way and you don't see it.
It isn't that she wants her cake and wants to eat it too *roll eyes*. It is that your criticism, even unspoken and merely felt as disapproval, has removed her from her own power and beauty. It will probably take years and years for her to go back to her carefree self, if she ever does at all.
But you know. Keep thinking you are entitled and that you deserve to get fucked three times a day. lol. Until you appreciate a woman's sexuality, the beauty and the power of it, I hope that never happens.
🙂
The thing is Libra is a bit of a free spirit. The more love you give us, the more we glow. But your problem is right where your question is asked. You criticize the girl for being sexual. Let's face it you believe she is something of a whore. So she shuts down her sex drive to please you, to prove she is a good girl. (which she probably is.) Then you complain that she isn't sexual. Well of course she isn't sexual with you! DUH! Female sexuality is a very delicate thing especially because there is so much judgement about it. These things are nuanced and subtle. You pried into her own fear about herself and her sexuality and sat in judgement of her. You betrayed her in a huge way and you don't see it.
It isn't that she wants her cake and wants to eat it too *roll eyes*. It is that your criticism, even unspoken and merely felt as disapproval, has removed her from her own power and beauty. It will probably take years and years for her to go back to her carefree self, if she ever does at all.
But you know. Keep thinking you are entitled and that you deserve to get fucked three times a day. lol. Until you appreciate a woman's sexuality, the beauty and the power of it, I hope that never happens.
🙂
* She was a wild unbalanced Libra, house was a mess, never cleaned, eats junk food, could be really shallow...
BTW, that is a really shallow surface read of her life. That is NOT an indicator of unbalance. It is an indicator of someone who isn't domestic, which most libra girls aren't.
If she stays with you, you constant criticism will eat away at her whole of self. She will leave never feeling known or understood and probably with her self-esteem in the gutter. You will unravel her and not in a good way.
This is why Virgo men shouldn't date Libra ladies. You destroy us with your coldness. Beauty needs light to shine.
I wish you the best and hope I am wrong.
BTW, that is a really shallow surface read of her life. That is NOT an indicator of unbalance. It is an indicator of someone who isn't domestic, which most libra girls aren't.
If she stays with you, you constant criticism will eat away at her whole of self. She will leave never feeling known or understood and probably with her self-esteem in the gutter. You will unravel her and not in a good way.
This is why Virgo men shouldn't date Libra ladies. You destroy us with your coldness. Beauty needs light to shine.
I wish you the best and hope I am wrong.
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