Virgo Man - Gemini Woman Breakup

I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.

What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA

How old r u guys? What r the type of things that they are saying? Sounds like people knew the drama of your relationship and are adding their 2 cents.

I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.

The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?

I had been his friend who listened to him when he is sad or upset. I am not needy of him since i only communicates with him if he initiates it. Even gave him the vacation trip as gift coz it's his first trip away from our place. A week after our trip, i had breast cyst and he became distant with me so i was texting him if he is okay. That time he became upset with me. I'm confused on what to do now.

Hi!
You should post your natal charts.

I don't like the blame game. Sometimes when a relationship doesn't work It's because of the lack of compatible "energy".

*Most of people with Earth signs don't like Air ones, because they are too playful for them. They use to blame other people because they see themselves as the mature ones. It's ok, don't get mad at them, It's their nature.

*On the other hand, most of people ruled by Air signs don't like the earthy ones, because Earth signs have their "rules". They can't live without them.

Some people with Air signs can't even understand how a person "MUST" follow this kind of life: job=>marriage=>children=>retiring=>death

Edit: Since you are 32, the next info may not be necessary. But with Gemini you NEVER KNOW!

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That's why It's so important to know yourself, wisely. It will be easier to know where you belong, and what kind of partner is meant for you.
So, your birth chart is really important. Get one, then you will know if it's worthy to keep that Virgo dude.
Some Gemini girls need a dynamic partner. Less feelings and more idealism, less earth and more movement. Could be your case.

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Ok lady. I really doubt that you don't know where you belong, but... come on! a Virgo?? Really?? uhmmm could be a very special case.

Good Luck, and never blame yourself. 😉

Posted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.

What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA

Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?

Posted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.

The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?

yall 2 old for this. How long was the relationship?

Posted by CharlieSlaughter
Hi!
You should post your natal charts.

I don't like the blame game. Sometimes when a relationship doesn't work It's because of the lack of compatible "energy".

*Most of people with Earth signs don't like Air ones, because they are too playful for them. They use to blame other people because they see themselves as the mature ones. It's ok, don't get mad at them, It's their nature.

*On the other hand, most of people ruled by Air signs don't like the earthy ones, because Earth signs have their "rules". They can't live without them.

Some people with Air signs can't even understand how a person "MUST" follow this kind of life: job=>marriage=>children=>retiring=>death

Edit: Since you are 32, the next info may not be necessary. But with Gemini you NEVER KNOW!

*********

That's why It's so important to know yourself, wisely. It will be easier to know where you belong, and what kind of partner is meant for you.
So, your birth chart is really important. Get one, then you will know if it's worthy to keep that Virgo dude.
Some Gemini girls need a dynamic partner. Less feelings and more idealism, less earth and more movement. Could be your case.

***********


Ok lady. I really doubt that you don't know where you belong, but... come on! a Virgo?? Really?? uhmmm could be a very special case.

Good Luck, and never blame yourself. 😉

Mine is Mars in Gemini while his is Mars in Virgo. I was rejecting him from the start as I know Gemini-Virgo are not compatible but he was so persistent at that time. There is spark in us, like a spark that burst into flame.

we lasted 5 months when he suddenly changed. I never see him so upset at til the day he broke it off.

I don't know what's with this guy. I am almost past my acceptance stage with our break up but it is making it hard for me to move on.

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Posted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.

What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA

Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?

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a week after our vacation trip I got problem with health. At this time, he does not reply to my messages so I was sending him asking if he is okay or if something is wrong. I stopped contacting him for 1 week as he became silent (did send any messages) just to give him space but then a week after he break up with me.

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Posted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.

The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?

yall 2 old for this. How long was the relationship?

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it only lasted 5 months. i know i am too old for this. but it is messing up with my relationship with our mutual friends.

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Posted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.

What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA

Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?

a week after our vacation trip I got problem with health. At this time, he does not reply to my messages so I was sending him asking if he is okay or if something is wrong. I stopped contacting him for 1 week as he became silent (did send any messages) just to give him space but then a week after he break up with me.

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So you weren't gettting the attention you thought he should give you, got spiteful deleted him from Facebook and stopped contact after not receiving a response from him. OK...you made the first direct move of cutting him off. He obliged. Maybe something more urgent was needed on his end that he had to take care of and instead of being spiteful you should have given him the chance to see what it was. Don't you think?

leave them alone all the time ther u go just solvd it

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Posted by TheRedQueen
I don't know if I am posting in the right board. I'm gemini. My virgo man broke up with me before the holiday because I became needy. I begged for one day and unfriended him in facebook a week after but recently our mutual friends had been posting about our relationship.

What's with all the virgo guy's hate? He is the one who dumped me for no reason. The only fault i see is i became needy of him but i did have asked his forgiveness about it already. Why is his friends posting in facebook like it's all my fault? TIA

Define "needy"..what did you do when you became needy?

a week after our vacation trip I got problem with health. At this time, he does not reply to my messages so I was sending him asking if he is okay or if something is wrong. I stopped contacting him for 1 week as he became silent (did send any messages) just to give him space but then a week after he break up with me.

So you weren't gettting the attention you thought he should give you, got spiteful deleted him from Facebook and stopped contact after not receiving a response from him. OK...you made the first direct move of cutting him off. He obliged. Maybe something more urgent was needed on his end that he had to take care of and instead of being spiteful you should have given him the chance to see what it was. Don't you think?

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He broke up with me saying "i delete his number and delete our pictures" that was a week before i deleted him off my facebook.

Posted by TheRedQueen
I am 32 and the virgo guy is 27. Theyre pointing fingers at me like i messed up everything. I am never needy, it just happen that i have problem with my breast cyst that time. I am already in the point of moving on until all i saw on my newsfeed are post of our mutual friends saying there's just more things that needs be done to keep the relationship. I was crying on the phone for him asking for forgiveness and that I will change the day he broke up with me.

The day after i unfriended him, our mutual friends are flooding statuses in my newsfeed. I don't know what to do. Should i deactivate my account?

IMO he already was having second thoughts he used that as an excuse period I have done that and as soon as I find a valid reason ( in my eyes) I run for the hills..hope this helps..I am a virgo/libra