Virgo Man - More than Friends?

Guys I really need some help trying to figure out my male Virgo friend. I am a virgo also. We work together. We didn't speak at all for the first year that I worked there. He rarely speaks to anyone, never smiles, he just sits at his desk and works. One day, in an awkward situation I broke the ice, found out we had some similar interests and we have been inseparable ever since. People tell me that when I am there, he is a complete different person. Some said they never knew he could smile until I came along. We started talking outside of work, we talk constantly. Mostly through IM, we are both homebodies and thats pretty much always where we are. The story goes on and on. (I'll spare the rest of the details, its getting corny enough) Let's just say, everything was setting up just like a fairy tale and I was just biding my time until he got his slow virgo mind made up. Mind you we never talked about it. Not even hinted about us liking each other. Too shy for that, but all the signs were there.

That went on for about 6 months, we are now at month 9......

Now, things are starting to get awkward between us. Starting a couple on months ago, he almost stopped talking all together, both at work and home. I always knew that he was extremely private, that was ok at first, but now after all this time he still hasn't let me in at all. He even tries his best not to say 'bye' when he goes to leave now. He seriously tries to time it to where he can just slip away while I am busy with something else. Sometimes when I say it, he just flat ignores it and bolts for the door. The tension between us is almost unbearable. Everyone else seems to be picking up on it too. This is most days now sadly. Then there are other days when everything was like it used to be, all smiles and constant talking, and he makes it obvious that he missed me (without saying it) etc.

We are still as close as we were, but everything is different. Did I miss my chance because I didn't step up first and ask him out? Did he never like me and he figured out I liked him and he is distancing himself? Does he still like me and its just the Virgo man issues rearing their ugly head? My emotions are all over the place. Add on top of the fact that my over analytical Virgo mind has been in overdrive throughout all of this. I need advice. I can't ask him, because its he is the type that will run at the first sign of emotion, and I may lose my friend too. Please, any help would be appreciated....

I reposted this in the Virgo forum. Didn't see it down there. Sorry 🙂

I think you should be blunt (and calm) and tell him that something is weird between the two of you with your friendship. With virgo guys I've known this has worked for me if something seems is a bit off.

Virgos need a thump on the head, or at least a female they can read.

Virgo with virgo? really, how will you two get together with the both of you playing it cool?

If I were adding my two cents in, I'd say he has just finally convinced himself, you really did not like him in that way.

You don't have to ask him out, just send better signals. Why not ask some scorp girls here, they know how to reel them in.