Virgo with a dilemma

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by Virgo229 on Friday, May 4, 2012 and has 3 replies.

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@Virgo229
14 Years

Hi, I never do this and I never discuss my emotions on women that mean something to me with others, but I've reached a breaking point and need a bit of anonymity (and I'm not really sure on astrology, but this seems to be a good place as any).

I'm a Virgo on the Libra cusp. My Moon is Gemini and Venus is Scorpio.

I have a choice:

Scorpio with leo moon or a pure cancerian girl

The scorpio is someone I'm in love with and she me, and we have a chance to be with each other again. We haven't seen each other in over half a year, did our own thing and now she's coming back (long-distance, work). This relationship is rare, but I'm scared she'd be different in a way and the relationship won't be the same. But I'm sure we'd pick up where we left off, but I'm not 100% sure.

The cancerian girl is sweet and sensitive and not as self-assured. But she feels fresh and very accomodating.

Both are very beautiful and sexy and the sex was special with both of them in their own ways. The cancer was wild, but the Scorpio took me to a different place. She took control of the bedroom for the better. I can be with the Cancer now, but I told her about the Scorpio and that it's not over and we might see other again soon as the Scorpio is coming back permanently. Once the Cancer found out she shut us down. Now I'm so sure who I want anymore.

I know I want too much, but I need to discuss this with people to explain my emotions dammit!

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@RoseTheTaurus
14 Years500+ Posts

Go with the Scorpio, although for some reason Virgos eventually drives Scorpios crazy. Why? I have no idea.
Those two always seemed like a weird match to me. But you don't deserve the Cancer.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Virgo229

I have a choice:

Scorpio with leo moon or a pure cancerian girl

If you have to choose one from another, then neither are you holding with enough depth to be a good boyfriend ... for as soon as another would venture along that you would like enough to measure against your girlfriend (girlfriend being whichever one won the contest) .... and this measuring one against the other is quite disgusting, actually.

If you actually felt beyond the surface of your ego, then a question of who is best would never be present in you to even cross your mind.

We find another Virgo objectifying women ... how many times does this have to happen before people (get) it?