Well, Well, Well, Look what the super moon dragged in

He called yesterday. My Libra love came back. He completely ghosted me in the end of July then started cryptic FB posts and emails in September and now he called.

Filled with excuses and sob stories.

His first words were "Please don't yell at me".

But he came back, apologizing and professing his love.

I don't know if I even want it.

I went through the grief stage and the anger stage but hearing his voice made me feel absolutely nothing.

If he put you through so much pain then don't respond and just block his number.

I imagine it went something like this at first:

But then I hope you told him that you're no pushover and that he's gonna have to do the hard yards if he wants back in:

Or you could just:

and send him on his way

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Did you yell at him?

I was speechless. He was emotional and whiny and I was on the other end cooking dinner and rolling my eyes

Posted by Deedee86
He called yesterday. My Libra love came back. He completely ghosted me in the end of July then started cryptic FB posts and emails in September and now he called.

Filled with excuses and sob stories.

His first words were "Please don't yell at me".

But he came back, apologizing and professing his love.

I don't know if I even want it.

I went through the grief stage and the anger stage but hearing his voice made me feel absolutely nothing.

One of them is doing that to me as well.. just out of nowhere. I assessed my behaviour or what I might have said because I know someone will want to share their 2 cents in saying ''you must have done something''. I kinda wish their was a reason but I'm mature enough to accept maybe he just wasn't into me and just wasn't man enough to say it. Just going to mirror him back.

I'm not going to say what you should do since I don't know how your relationship is but I've just dropped this one emotionally as the final stage. I felt all you felt as well but I have no time for games or unreliable people.

The conversation was unproductive. He gave lots of excuses. One of them is that he just had a nervous breakdown. Then he started talking about a new doctor and different meds. I guess I should feel bad. A month ago I did feel bad for him. But I didn't this time. It just sounded like excuses.

And there was no caller id. I still don't have a phone number for him. So he loves me and wants me back but won't get me his phone number? Fuck that shit!

I ended it because I was in the middle of cooking. My responses were short and limited to basic medical advice. When I said goodbye, he said "I love you". I said nothing.

Does this mean I'm finally over him?

I was so heartbroken before, I thought I would die. This was the second time in over 5 years that he ghosted me. I think the pain of missing him would be easier than the pain of being ghosted again.

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll

Posted by Deedee86

Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
Did you yell at him?

I was speechless. He was emotional and whiny and I was on the other end cooking dinner and rolling my eyes

Hope you had a nice bottle of wine to go with dinner after that call.

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No, but I did have an Italian rum cake which was almost as good.

Give him a chance. You would want the same.

Posted by DMV
Give him a chance. You would want the same.

This is the second time!

He does have PTSD and depression so I cut him some slack and try to be understanding BUT he changed his phone number to get away from me!

Twice!!!! In 2012 he disappeared in the same manner.

Posted by Deedee86
The conversation was unproductive. He gave lots of excuses. One of them is that he just had a nervous breakdown. Then he started talking about a new doctor and different meds. I guess I should feel bad. A month ago I did feel bad for him. But I didn't this time. It just sounded like excuses.

And there was no caller id. I still don't have a phone number for him. So he loves me and wants me back but won't get me his phone number? Fuck that shit!

I ended it because I was in the middle of cooking. My responses were short and limited to basic medical advice. When I said goodbye, he said "I love you". I said nothing.

Does this mean I'm finally over him?

I was so heartbroken before, I thought I would die. This was the second time in over 5 years that he ghosted me. I think the pain of missing him would be easier than the pain of being ghosted again.

What?! You don't have his number??..

I'm outta here. I'm sorry but I don't care how suffocating your partner might be, there is no need to hide your number unless you're feeling threatened for your life... Makes no sense.

He's just wimpy. Probably can't handle the Scorpio intensity. I'm assuming you're Scorpio, correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm not going to judge because these issues could depend on the configuration of both your charts individually or transits currently occurring to them or what's going on with both of you privately.

Don't go back. He will always play this game. If you go back he will only get back to where you were when you were hurt. Let it go & forget he even called to waste your precious cooking time!