@Zodiaclove88
10 Years
What is wrong with me and this situation?
I guess I just don’t know if he knows what he wants or if this is typical behavior. Nothing physical has happened, but he seems so interested.
Does anybody else feel like they only seem to match with or get feelings for people with baggage, ending relationships, or currently in them? I already feel like a bad person.
Most recent interaction: early last week a guy from my gym that I’ve been crushing on had talked to me and asked for my number and we have been connecting since. I’ve gone out with groups and him and everyone has commented on how interested in me he seems. I recently found out from him that he had a girlfriend and that things are complicated in that she lives across the country and they don’t talk and had a bad falling out when he took this job opportunity. We have not been physical, but I feel like we are really connecting and I want to be real with myself and try to be as respectful of myself and him and his girlfriend. Do you think he will break up with her? It also seems like they have some issues and never effectively communicate.
Zodiac info:
Myself: sun-Leo
Moon-Libra
Venus-Cancer
Mars- Aries
Him: Sun-Aries
Moon-Pisces
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Pisces
Her: Sun- Gemini
Moon- Virgo
Venus- Gemini
Mars- Pisces (I think this is hers?)
Please help
She is across the country!
Imaginary friend! You are here! Grab him by the balls and he will forget everything! Good luck!
I’m kind of the same way. It seems I’m only attracted to relationships surrounded by drama. I think it’s because I enjoy a challenge much more then just easily obtaining something.
Sounds dull as fcuk...too much Pisces in his chart too
What does that mean- is Pisces bad? Is he more compatible with one of us vs the other?
Oh god his chart!
Oh god his chart!
What does that mean? Is this typical behavior?
His chart says that if he isn’t taking charge in his love life, he will probably just go along with whatever seems easiest and takes care of his ego the most.
Your chart says you desperately want companionship, and that feeling like you worked hard to earn it, perhaps even to your own detriment, is the only way you think the love is real.
Her chart says she will do what’s best for her and won’t think twice about it.
She seems like the person who will be most fine in this situation.
As for attracting wounded/taken/baggage types, that’s probably means you have your own you are avoiding sorting out. So you’ll attract people with that theme till you fix it within yourself. Once you do, you will feel better and change your expectations, for yourself and relationships, and probably attract more equal and positive prospects.
Couldn’t have said it better myself. What are the chances of this working out at all? Is there any chance?
No friendship or hanging out?
Oh god his chart!
What does that mean? Is this typical behavior?
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Lots of a pisces
Pro tip: everyone has baggage
I've heard that an Aries never wants to lose their Gemini so good luck.
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Does anybody else feel like they only seem to match with or get feelings for people with baggage, ending relationships, or currently in them? I already feel like a bad person.
Most recent interaction: early last week a guy from my gym that I’ve been crushing on had talked to me and asked for my number and we have been connecting since. I’ve gone out with groups and him and everyone has commented on how interested in me he seems. I recently found out from him that he had a girlfriend and that things are complicated in that she lives across the country and they don’t talk and had a bad falling out when he took this job opportunity. We have not been physical, but I feel like we are really connecting and I want to be real with myself and try to be as respectful of myself and him and his girlfriend. Do you think he will break up with her? It also seems like they have some issues and never effectively communicate.
Zodiac info:
Myself: sun-Leo
Moon-Libra
Venus-Cancer
Mars- Aries
Him: Sun-Aries
Moon-Pisces
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Pisces
Her: Sun- Gemini
Moon- Virgo
Venus- Gemini
Mars- Pisces (I think this is hers?)
Please help