Whats wrong with this SAG——

Hi all'

Im dating a sag man. and he is usually all sweet and all that. but lately he is acting kind of weird..
I was out with some girls last night, I texted him saying "if u are out, lets meet" and he was all cold and b*tter, saying "no im at home".. but still asking "are u drinking", and this morning "how was ur night" and when I text him back he ignores me. he is not this cold normally, I dont know whats wrong ..

beside that, we havent seen eachother in 3 weeks.. and he keep saying lets meet, when I say, okay lets do that, when do u have time?.. he says I dont know, lets see what happens..

I know he is busy and all that with his job. but its getting boring, and I feel like Im losing interest for him when he acts this way.

is this a SAG thing— or what.... hmmm

BTW. his chart is:

Rising sign: Pisces (I dont know what time he was born, so I dont know if this is correct)
Moon: Leo
Mercury: Sag
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Virgo
Jupiter: Scorpio
Saturn: Libra
Uranus: Sag
Neptune: Sag
Pluto: Libra
N. Node: Cancer

Yeah, that's a sag man for you. Once you get bored and start to not wanna be bothered he'll be back chasing after you. They like to distance themselves from time to time like that. He either is getting bored with you (not to take that personal), is stressing over something in his life (they can't do 2 things at once), or he's trying to see how long it takes to get under your skin (that's entertaining to them). But my advice is not to really rattle your brain over it. Just leave him alone and keep doin you..when he's ready to snap out of it he will, if you still want him by then...lol

Yes Saggs can be wishy/washy but I don't think your issues with him are an astrology thing.

At this point, it doesn't really matter what HIS reasons for disappearing/being hot-n-cold are b/c he's not man enough to communicate his reasons to you. And since he's the only person who can give you the real/truthful answer to why he's been so distant lately, there's no use in you guessing or trying to over-analyze everything b/c there's always a 99% chance that you may be wrong. And you can't solve the puzzle unless you've got all the RIGHT/truthful pieces.

So let's focus on you! You're getting bored. You're noticing alot of inconsistencies. You're noticing that he seems to only be giving you the minimum when it comes to his time, energy & effort towards you & the relationship you're trying to build with him. You're noticing that you're willing to give him more time, energy & dedication than he's willing to give you at this point.

So what now? If he's boring you, take a step back. You don't necessarily have to let him go or cut him off, but don't put all your eggs into 1 basket (i.e. his) either. Start dating other people. Communicate to him how his hot/cold behavior affects/bothers you (just like you shared your feelings with us).

Tell/show him how his actions (or lack of) affect & bother you. From there, give him the chance to "get it right." If after he places himself in your shoes & yet still DOESN'T change or offer you what you deserve, let him go. You can't withdrawl what he didn't deposit

Well, whatever is wrong with him it isn't you, since he doesn't care to go out with you, and barely cares to respond to you.


I know you wanted him to have a different reaction .... because you think something is wrong with him, so you obviously think he should be all over you.


Just because he's bored with you, doesn't mean anything is wrong with him ... he is just finding something better to do with his time.


You should follow suit ... however, I'm sure you are just most women, and will spend all your energy crying about it, instead of spending your time living for somethign better than tears,

Thank u..
Thats right im not devastated. I just wanted to know whats going on.. and now I know, I can move on with my life.
we have no contanct what so ever right now.. Im def not planning to contact him. he contacts me sometimes through facebook but its not a big deal, just how are u and that kind of talk..

I don't need a translator ... when I mean devastated, I will state devastated.