Okie so i been in the relationship with my ex bf which is a cancer for 6 months. For the first two months it going great He told me how he got betrayed by his first love and i told him i wouldn't do him wrong.Later on he told me that he love me and i love him too.We first met at the party so he know that i like to go out have fun and party alot which later turn into a problem. I told him im confused and i can't make up my mind since he always give attitude about me going out too much. I said we might as well just do our own things. But later on i soon realize i wanna be with him more than anything so i try to spend most of my times with him or just go school and work. Nearly to 5 months, he told me he struggles with lots of thing goin on and he doesn't know what he wants anymore, he needs space then he broke up with me. But i get my way to see him and we talk for awhile, then decide that we will be together and maybe he could change his mind. I tried so hard and he seems like he doesn't care anymore. I got mad and keep pushing him to answer me what he want so he basically tell me he not ready for a relationship. He loves me he doesnt want to let me go, I'm his best gf he ever had, maybe later when he ready i would be the only one he want to be with blah blah blah. I cry so much and told him i wouldnt want to hear or see him ever again. It been a week and i know how much i miss him.I really want to get him back.I'm a leo girl btw.
Why Cancer men gotta be so confusing—?

You hurt him and he crawled back into his shell. I don't have any advice on how to get him out... crab crackers?
I would just leave him be.

God damn leo girls are so vexxing! Why do you always have to be like this? You guys make me nearly ashamed to be one sometimes.
Basically, you fucked up. You were playing wishy-washy head games and you turned him off. Now he can't trust you. Of course the minute that he's not all about you anymore you go chasing after him because you're no longer receiving the attention. So you got him back but the tables have turned. You get all drama queen on him and get him to talk it over with you. You don't like what you hear so you throw a tantrum and tell him you don't want to see or talk to him again. A week later you miss him and want to get him back. Wow.
My advice is for you to let it go and be by yourself for a while. Those kinda games are no fun to play and you're acting childish. Get your head straight and the rest will follow suit.
Basically, you fucked up. You were playing wishy-washy head games and you turned him off. Now he can't trust you. Of course the minute that he's not all about you anymore you go chasing after him because you're no longer receiving the attention. So you got him back but the tables have turned. You get all drama queen on him and get him to talk it over with you. You don't like what you hear so you throw a tantrum and tell him you don't want to see or talk to him again. A week later you miss him and want to get him back. Wow.
My advice is for you to let it go and be by yourself for a while. Those kinda games are no fun to play and you're acting childish. Get your head straight and the rest will follow suit.
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