so i finally decided to end things once and for all with my "special friend". What made me decide he just wasnt worth it was the fact that some girl hacked his FB page and sent me a really mean rude message in response to one i had sent him. saying all this disrespectful stuff about me and him too actually. when i told him about it, he acted like he could really care less. like i was bothering him with the info. so that really really upset me. i couldnt believe the way he was reacting. i kept texting him to tell him to fix it, he ignored my texts. i called him he didnt answer. so i told him to keep his "jump offs" in check and that i dont appreciate being disrespected. i replied to the message i received and that was it. hours later i get more messages so he still hadnt went on and claimed his page back. this time she forwarded me messages that he had been sending to other girls the WHOLE time we were together. i had asked him over and over and over if he was talking to other girls, or trying to be with other girls, because at that point my feelings werent strong and if he wasnt trying to work toward something more with me, and just wanted to date around, then we couldve just remained friends like we've always been. i wouldve respected that. thats his right to date around if hes not ready for a relationship. but he told me no every single time, i believed him and we took things to the next level. i lost my virginity to him last year. (im 29 btw.) he knew my issues with trust and with guys and why i stayed a virgin so long. i never thought he would play me like that. SO once i found out that he was basically giving his # out left and right, telling girls he wants to get to know them better, calling them beautiful, wanting to hang out with them, what he's looking for in a relationship (a relationship he claimed to me he wasnt ready for) it made me sick to my stomach. so i told him how his dishonesty made me feel. and i ended our friendship. he still never responded. so im wondering if someone with a cancer sun/aquarius moon will try to come back? i really need to get over this guy. i feel one day we may be able to be cool, but right now is soooo not the time. i dont think im strong enough yet to resist him if he does try to come back, but i know its not a healthy situation for me. help!
