Women that keep it together after marriage/kids..

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Do Aqua's own this? I wouldn't look this good after one kid, but this woman has FIVE and they have been married for 16yrs now.

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I always notice how put together Kelly Rowland still looks after her son, and she's an Aqua. A kid knocked a bit of umph out of Beyonce and definitely out of Kim Kardashian, but Kelly looks better as a wife and mom. It could be a fixed sign thing I'm noticing, with Aqua's leading the pack...or is it me?

btw, I'm not just talking about still looking good and staying stylish, but also keeping the marriage and family unit in tact. Do you know these type of women in your personal lives? What are their signs?
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Posted by lnana04
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Maybe the secret is having a long torso?
interesting, Kelly has a long torso, so idk.

I personally think I would let myself go a little after being married with kids.

I don't see how a woman can juggle it all, keep everyone happy, and still look good in the process.



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kate middleton!!! i think she has aqua too. 😛 😄

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Kate Middleton looks good, but in pics I see of her she definitely looks like both a mother and wife. She settled right into her role, which makes me wonder if she has any real "me" time.
yes i think she does.

because she has no worries.

she is taken good care of. Her children are going to be set for life financially.

they live a lovely cushy well taken care of life...

and her husband probably has hobbies and does his own thing, like go fishing or golfing or something like that.

and the royal family always has people to cook their food, and clean their living spaces, butlers and maids and cooks everywhere.

even nannies.
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
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Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
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Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
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I must have missed it —
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
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Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
I must have missed it —
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Ok well it'll be a while before I post another! I'm so private and overly suspicious about posting pics it's crazy!

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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
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Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
I must have missed it —


Ok well it'll be a while before I post another! I'm so private and overly suspicious about posting pics it's crazy!

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Leave it more than an hour and please tag me —
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
+1?
Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
I must have missed it —


Ok well it'll be a while before I post another! I'm so private and overly suspicious about posting pics it's crazy!


Leave it more than an hour and please tag me —
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
Well go girl!!

Where do you find the energy?
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I have no energy ?! I'm a boss at my job which takes a lot of time! My kids... and a pending divorce! But I look at my mom... and my moms mom and they both are/ were drop dead gorgeous with kids and all! Shoot I'm still trying to look as good as my mom! She looks younger than I do and she's smaller than me!
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? that's me! I have 4 and no one believes me when I tell them! I still get carded everywhere I go. I still look very young, not thin but certainly not big, very pretty if I must toot my own horn, but I try not to! I do take my looks just as serious as taking care of my kids.
+1?
Lol awww thanks ?. Do you remember the pics I posted? I took them down like an hour within posting them.
I must have missed it —


Ok well it'll be a while before I post another! I'm so private and overly suspicious about posting pics it's crazy!


Leave it more than an hour and please tag me —
One day
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Call me 'jumping to conclusions' but its not hard to stay fly when you have nannies, a maid, a cook, a stylist, etc etc lol
And tons of money for plastic surgery. It's silly to compare normal people to rich and famous people
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It wasn't all about looks, and every rich celeb does not look good by the way. Even with money and surgeries many of them struggle with weight and appearance like everyone else.

Btw, I used rich people as examples because you all don't know the people in my personal life. I wanted folks to post the signs of the people that they know personally that keep everything together as well.
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Call me 'jumping to conclusions' but its not hard to stay fly when you have nannies, a maid, a cook, a stylist, etc etc lol
And tons of money for plastic surgery. It's silly to compare normal people to rich and famous people
It wasn't all about looks, and every rich celeb does not look good by the way. Even with money and surgeries many of them struggle with weight and appearance like everyone else.

Btw, I used rich people as examples because you all don't know the people in my personal life. I wanted folks to post the signs of the people that they know personally that keep everything together as well.
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True. It's not about being just being rich n also every rich celeb didn't maintain it all too well.

The women I know who were able to do that irl were Aqua, Virgo n Gem.

But wait till I get there y'all ?
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Call me 'jumping to conclusions' but its not hard to stay fly when you have nannies, a maid, a cook, a stylist, etc etc lol
And tons of money for plastic surgery. It's silly to compare normal people to rich and famous people
It wasn't all about looks, and every rich celeb does not look good by the way. Even with money and surgeries many of them struggle with weight and appearance like everyone else.

Btw, I used rich people as examples because you all don't know the people in my personal life. I wanted folks to post the signs of the people that they know personally that keep everything together as well.
True. It's not about being just being rich n also every rich celeb didn't maintain it all too well.

The women I know who were able to do that irl were Aqua, Virgo n Gem.

But wait till I get there y'all ?
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That's the spirit! lol
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Call me 'jumping to conclusions' but its not hard to stay fly when you have nannies, a maid, a cook, a stylist, etc etc lol
And tons of money for plastic surgery. It's silly to compare normal people to rich and famous people
It wasn't all about looks, and every rich celeb does not look good by the way. Even with money and surgeries many of them struggle with weight and appearance like everyone else.

Btw, I used rich people as examples because you all don't know the people in my personal life. I wanted folks to post the signs of the people that they know personally that keep everything together as well.
True. It's not about being just being rich n also every rich celeb didn't maintain it all too well.

The women I know who were able to do that irl were Aqua, Virgo n Gem.

But wait till I get there y'all ?
That's the spirit! lol

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Oh, @Inana04 my mom is a Sag and my grandmother an Aries. I'm an Aqua.
well, well ,well...another Aqua lol.

My mother is an Aqua too. FOR YEARS every guy my sister and I liked crushed on our mom. She can fix herself up and still make my sister and I look like the backup.

She hates when she doesn't look or feel like herself.
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That's me! I don't sad much, but if I do... 80% of the time it's because I feel off or not like my normal self.
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Call me 'jumping to conclusions' but its not hard to stay fly when you have nannies, a maid, a cook, a stylist, etc etc lol
And tons of money for plastic surgery. It's silly to compare normal people to rich and famous people
It wasn't all about looks, and every rich celeb does not look good by the way. Even with money and surgeries many of them struggle with weight and appearance like everyone else.

Btw, I used rich people as examples because you all don't know the people in my personal life. I wanted folks to post the signs of the people that they know personally that keep everything together as well.
True. It's not about being just being rich n also every rich celeb didn't maintain it all too well.

The women I know who were able to do that irl were Aqua, Virgo n Gem.

But wait till I get there y'all ?
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sounds like a mercurial thing going on.



it's hard work though.



my sag sister can do it but she is strict with her diet.

aries sister has a hard time, cause she loves fatty foods. she has also thyroid problems like mother in law.

it could be a thyroid problem too.

i'm average, not too skinny and not overweight.

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in the past i used to be a 100 pounds wet. yes i was THAT skinny.

like a super model thin stick.

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but everything that i wore looked sooooo good.

now i'm 25 pounds more, so according to the average height and weight that's AVERAGE.

not overweight either.

but i do miss the skinny days at times. But i dont want to give up eating what i want.

i personally didnt eat very well back then either. I sometimes didnt eat.



and then i would splurge the next day or after. It was very very unhealthy. But no drugs.



just alot of sugar highs too.

my sag sister is shorter than us, so she's about 115 pounds maybe.

aries sister can barely make 160 pounds if she's lucky. but she's very very beautiful and we dont want her to starve.

she can be very very stylish in her lush figure.
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I have one son. Single mum busy ass. I have tons of Aqua placements. No one knows I have a baby on my baby day off as in all doll up. Lots of time, I get comments and flirts from a sell man only fornme to tell them I actually have a baby and they r shocked. I take my son tommy dancing classes and stikk go out atleast once every month dancing. I just dyed my hair red and planning to go on pole dancing class for fitness and all. I refuse to let a motherhood stop me from being hot and fabulous lol...!!!!! 😉 happier mummy happier baby. He's the happiest baby in time coz his mum is super chill , happy and cool. Lol now that's all Aqua traits😉 blessed
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From what I see of Aquas IRL, they do tend to take that "me time" more than anyone else I know.

They are more likely to take trips without their kids or husbands. They do their own thing and don't feel bad for it. There are other women you have to seriously talk to them to get them to take some me time, like my Scorpio Mom. Convincing her to do stuff for herself is like a never ending battle. But with the Aquas in my life, it seems as though they are always doing their own thing.

I'm sure that helps too. They worry less maybe?

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From what I see of Aquas IRL, they do tend to take that "me time" more than anyone else I know.

They are more likely to take trips without their kids or husbands. They do their own thing and don't feel bad for it. There are other women you have to seriously talk to them to get them to take some me time, like my Scorpio Mom. Convincing her to do stuff for herself is like a never ending battle. But with the Aquas in my life, it seems as though they are always doing their own thing.

I'm sure that helps too. They worry less maybe?


Yay you got the point. I'm not Aqua but with mooncin Aqua , mars . I make sure I always get my me time. I was back on the dance floor 3 weeks after given birth. Always make sure my happy tank is fullfiled . Happy mummy happy baby. Sineple